if u get pregnant how do u tell ure parents?

Question

I'm not pregnant just looking for wat to say incase it happens. I'm not a virgen and if i do get pregnant how do i tell my parents and bf?

Answer 1

Unless you are wanting to get pregnant you should either get on birth control or stop having sex.

If your not comfortable enough to talk to your parents about your sex life or getting birthcontrol your not going to be any more comfortable about telling them you are pregnant.

However after raising two teenage boys who are now 22 and 18 I know not having sex is usually not an option for teens who especially feel they are "in love".

My best advice would be to talk to your parents, whichever one you can talk to the easiest, about how you feel about things. What's the worse that can happen? What's the worse that can happen if you don't?

Your parent's may not like hearing that their daughter is having sex but I guarantee you they won't love you less. They may not react right away the way you want them to but after they have had time to consider that you were at least open and honest enough to talk to them I think they will at least be willing to discuss things with you.

Second is that if you can't get birth control and if you can't refrain from having sex then just have oral sex, refrain from intercourse. This can be just as satisfying, if not more so, and you won't get pregnant. I found out my boys were having oral sex with girls long before they started having intercourse.

However, keep in mind that you can still contract diseases through oral sex.

If you are pregnant, and I know you said your not, but if you are then please, talk to your parents, you may not like their reaction but what are your alternatives. You need them now more than ever.

Answer 2

PLEASE.......what happened to if you are old enough to engage in sex, then you must be old enough to seek birth control? They have free clinics that give out birth control without parents knowing, so if you have time to have sex then you have time to visit one. Why would you want to hurt yourself, boyfriend and parents by getting pregnant? Nothing to say about an innocent little child who needs mature & financially responsible parents. Sounds like you or someone you know is trying not to prevent it and all I can say is What a crappy, irresponsible thing to do. How about practicing safe sex......?

Answer 3

if you are having unprotected sex, pregnancy is not the only thing you need to be worried about.. i think the better question is how do you tell your parents you are dying from aids. you wouldn't want to become pregnant or infected with an std. protect yourself.. use birth control and condoms. but most importantly talk to your parents or guidance counselor or get yourself checked out at your local health dept. It could save your life.. Good luck

Answer 4

Just wait till they see the weight you're gaining and then they'll ask about it (just kidding actually). Tell them both straight out and directly. To your parents word it like "I have something important to tell you, I'm just afraid you're going to be judge mental and harsh on me. I'm saying this first because I'm pregnant". To your boyfriend you could say something like "You remember the time a while back when we had sex. I felt sick after that. It's because I'm pregnant for sure.".

Answer 5

Be very honest with them and don't blame them for not stopping you, or letting you mess around, etc. Because it's not their fault and saying that could only cause a problem.

And don't go into depression. Be positive and active. The baby deserves the best of love and devotion because they are capable of loving you to no end and that is something special.

Answer 6

Just tell them"I got you something" and slide the ultrasound picture to them at the dinner table. Or you could be smart and forward thinking and either1)Keep your cookies to yourself to AVOID pregnancy; or 2)Get on reliable birth control to avoid changing the course of your life before you're ready. Be careful and walk in wisdom...

Answer 7

You wont have to "tell" your parents. They have been there, and understand. Hiding is likely the worst thing to do.

Why dont you go and ask your mother this question? Your care for their feelings will be a very special thing to her, and likely assure her. Better to ask now, than to flatten her in a corner later.

Answer 8

Parents: I have been a sl*t and got knocked up.
BF: I'm going to bring a bastard baby in this world who will make the same mistakes i did and get knocked up by some random guys. I will now destroy your future and dream by demanding child support for the next 18 years. Get to work, sucker!

24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."

Answer 9

i just told my parents 2 weeks ago.
You go up, sit them down, and tell them directly. and ask for their forgiveness. My best gal fren was with me so I didn't feel so alone and scared. (The guy was a jerk as i was a fool)
Tell ur bf directly.
Best in person and not on the phone cos u need to see his reaction face2face.
Good luck

Answer 10

Tell mom first-she will be more understanding. Than kiss your childhood goodbye and welcome to the real world of adulthood. babies cost a lot of money to provide for. If you don't want to lose all your freedom and don't desire to be broke wait for the time when you are mature enough to conceive.