Um, ok, so this guy I'm NOT interested in, who I TOLD 3 days ago "just friends" specifically, came to my work today, and brought me flowers... The girl I work with knows him, so he partly visited for her, but still. Anyway, Did he NOT get that I'm not interested? How can I make it more clear? He's a mutal friend with my other friend, so I can't just totally ignore him, I don't want to be mean. But yeah, he does kinda creep me out... and, he started going to a place I hang out too... that I won't stop going to... ?? please help!
2006-09-16 18:28:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might want to be a little mean because he has selective hearing.. he only hears what he wants to hear... and ignore the rest
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2006-09-16 18:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you are interested in other men. Date those men in front of him. Kiss them in front of him. Laugh with them. If you have no prospects lined up perhaps you can find a male friend and let him in on what your doing. Use him to get your point across. Let the creepy one know without saying a word that he is not important to you. Oh and when he tries to talk too you don't make eye contact and answer in one word. Yes, No never maybe. Be distant and do not acknowledge him in the least as if he isn't there at all. If he persists tell him coldly(I now its not your style but) and plainly to go away. I hope this helps. it may sound cruel but it could stop a nasty situation from becoming an out of control situation.
2006-09-17 01:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you have a boyfriend already hopefully he will go away any way if he does not believe you act something up with another guy friend you have make it look real if he does not stop ask someone more qualified on what to do maybe he's obsessed with you just be care full on what you chose to do
2006-09-17 01:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by ShadowWitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk. Thank him for the flowers, but make sure he understands that he has no chance.
2006-09-17 01:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
REITERATE your position, politely , if after that, you will
have to get a little stern in reaffirming that you are just friends and would like to keep it that way.
2006-09-17 01:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by wallygator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe show up somewhere you know he is going to be with another Guy!! maybe he'll get the message-that way!
2006-09-17 01:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already told him that you don't like him in that way.Have one of your guy friends explain to him but make sure they are alone.So he wont get embarrasses.
2006-09-17 01:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab another guy friend, go to 'the place' and introduce to 'that stalker' friend of yours that he is your dude. Deeds settled.
2006-09-17 01:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by whitewizard888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moon the dumba ss!
2006-09-17 01:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the friend u have in common to kindly tell him that u simply dont like him
2006-09-17 01:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋