my neice is 15 and her girlfriend is 19 .i didnt find this out until a few weeks ago.and when i say girlfriend i mean " GIRLFRIEND' they are even having sex.but my biggest concern is the age.and its my neices first love.and i know that she will end up getting hurt.what do i do what do i say to her about this.this girl doesnt under stand what she is playing with.ever since my neice started seeing her ,her attitude has changed ,she doesnt talk to me anymore.they stay in her room all the time.what do i do .do i take actions in my own hands.or do i let her find out for her self.and to this girl is 19 what would she get out of a15 year old.i dont want to see her get hurt.but i also dont want her mad at me.
2006-09-16 18:26:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
Talk to mom .It is Illegal to have sex at 15 with someone over 18 in most states
2006-09-16 18:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 and 19 is really not that much of an age difference. She's a teenage girl and she will fall in and out of love many many more times before she's 20. Dating and getting hurt is how we all learned what we want out of a relationship. It's the natural process of growing up.
My one question is, would you be so concerned if this person was a boy??
2006-09-17 01:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by dzlgrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your niece is under age and the other girl is an adult, it could be considered statutory rape or child abuse. She is a child and you are the adult. The fact that she might get mad has nothing to do with it. She is not old enough to be making these choices. Where is her mother? Someone has to step in and act like a grown up.
2006-09-17 01:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no choice, you've got to stop that now because seriously, that "girlfriend" is gonna leave that poor niece of yours at some point and you're not gonna like it.
But on the other hand....their connections is so strong, they could start out with....I don't know.
My head could blow up with this I will stop now.
2006-09-17 01:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by The Guide Giver of the West 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though the age is not a good thing...at least you don't have to worry about unwanted pregnancy!
Keep an eye on her and talk calmly with her about your concerns and then let her alone. She has to learn on her own.
2006-09-20 21:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the 19 year old arrested for abusing a minor.
2006-09-17 01:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check with the local police if any statutory age of consent laws are being broken.
2006-09-17 01:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by SM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sounds good. but I think you should let her learn by herself . then she will learn the lesson that says those who BLA BLA BLA are doomed to repeat it.
2006-09-17 01:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by enano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋