how do i make him like me in fact... how do i make for him to talk to me . .. ok hes an exchanged student .. hes a german .. not a lot of girl like him .. hes skinny and nerdy .. but im totally into him .. but i need advise .. like what would be a good subject to talk abouot .. and stuff ... help!!
2006-09-16 18:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by alexaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a time that you can strike up a conversation with the guy.
For instance, if he has the same class as you, or watches the same show, you could talk about that. Talk to him about something that you both like. Make a funny joke to get him to laugh.
Don't go way over the top by trying to flirt. You just may end up looking desperate and scare the guy. You don't have to wave a flag with his name on it to get him to notice you.
Try to look really cute around him--however, keep in mind that most guys like casual,natural girls that look like they didn't spend a lot of time on themselves. Wear clothes that are appropriate to the situation (avoid showing way too much skin).If you are overdressed you will look and feel uncomfortable. Wear natural makeup, a little lipgloss,mascara and blusher are often enough.
Flash your best million dollar smile for him.
Don't push him into liking you. Let him make his own decision.
Chances are if he sees that you are comfortable with yourself, he'll feel at ease.
Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever.
They will know if you are being fake. If the guy doesn't like you for who you truly are, then he probably isn't worth it.
Ask around about who his ex-girlfriends are. Take a look at them, or talk to them, and see if you notice something that they all have in common, for example, they all have straight hair which they wear down, or they all play sports. This could be why he liked them, if they all share the same thing.If its something small like hair, maybe you could do your hair like his exes, but don't change something drastically just for him.
Don't be afraid to show off a little in front of him, but don't show off too much, or you will seem conceited. Guys appreciate confidence.
Try to let him take the lead. Take this time to decide if you really like him and let them realize this is what you are doing. It will make them step up their game.
Don't be too hard on yourself. If he is not coming around, then let
it go. Maybe he will find interest later. If not, it's not the end of the world.
If he looks like he might like you, ask him out. But be prepared to keep your cool if he says no. He'll probably respect you for it either way.
Don't play stupid mind games or send mixed signals.
Be nice and kind to the person. If they ask to borrow something, happily say yes. Also give compliments.
Tips
If you get really nervous every time you try to talk to the guy, practice what you'll say before hand. Just take a deep breath and relax. Keep the conversation casual. Remember that you don't have to start dressing differently and change your hair color to impress. You're fine just the way you are.
Don't back off him a lot or he will feel like you don't like him. In other words, don't be so shy!
Patience, honesty, and being yourself will always win over anyone you like (or anyone who likes you).
Don't be pushy or impatient. Good things come to those who wait.
Tell them what you think of them. Never ask how they feel about you. If they want you to know, they will show (or tell) you. This approach will prevent you from getting your feelings hurt.
If there is no sign of him being interested in you, that doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't interested. He could just be shy, or be a little frightened, especially if he hasn't dated anyone for a long time.
Think how you would want someone to act if they liked you.
If you really like a guy and he doesn't like you or thinks you are
annoying don't push him on liking you; start off by being friends and let it go from there.
If something bad happens to him, be there to listen to his problems.
Ask people what your best points are and highlight them! For example, if people say your eyes are really bright blue, exagerate them more by wearing a blue eyeshadow! Or if people say you have really nice legs, wear more skirts!
Don't be shy. Boys aren't gonna laugh at you or anything for taking these steps, so there's nothing to be afraid of.
Warnings
If he kisses you or does something you're not comfortable with, you could just hug him or you can tell him straight forward "I like you but I don't think I am ready for this kind of thing." If he likes you for you, he won't care and and he will respect your decision.
Don't bug him too much or he might feel like you are being a little too keen.
Don't confuse kindness with him liking you.
Don't pressure him, or push him to do something, he may not be
ready.
Don't tell him you like him if you don't even know him.
Don't be clingy!
Don't stare. This is annoying as well as creepy after a while. Just give him your occasional glance, and if he happens to be looking back at you, give him nothing more that a sincere little smile and maybe even a wave. If you've done this a few times already and want to be a little bolder you can even wink at him. He'll get the hint.
2006-09-16 18:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 02:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let's take things a little slow. Try to approach him as a fellow classmate. He's from Germany, perhaps a good ice breaker and a chance to do some homework on him is to ask him about Germany, where he grew up, what did he do there and what's life in general like. I can't say whether he will like you romantically or not, that's his tastes, his call, but it wont hurt that you're showing him that you have an interest. I too have a tendency to like foreign women, mainly Far Eastern Asians and Hispanics.
2006-09-16 18:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Urban Xiansheng 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, get to know what he likes. If he's nerdy, then he would really be surprised that a girl is talking to him, so you can't loose.
2006-09-16 18:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
skinny and nerdy is not dat bad.. almost of them are brave rite? so,maybe u can ask him about subject u didn't noe although u already noe.hoho. u can strt from that,, but,this kind of person is very shy and very hard too.. so,good luck!! =)
2006-09-16 18:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the universal language of love, music.
2006-09-16 18:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is the cutest story ever :) Props to you girl for liking him for him. Just smile a lot and be friendly, learn some German phrases and that will definitely impress him for the effort you put in to learning his language. Introduce yourself and tell him that you know it must be difficult to be away from his home and that if he ever wants to hang out........you are available! :) Good luck & God bless!! :)
2006-09-16 18:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
try talking in German..try to look good..go sit with him 4 lunch...ask him whether u could hang out with him for the evening..
2006-09-16 18:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is what I would do . Ask him what's his favorite food
and cook him up the dish of his life . He will always remember you if you feed him , you can win his heart threw his stomake. Good luck .
2006-09-16 18:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by nanabest27 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him open questions like "How do you like living here as opposed to Germany?"
2006-09-16 18:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋