Ok I 5 months back I cheated on my current gf with my ex yes I know shame on me. It went on for about 3 months we ended it in may like the first week of the month.(me and my ex) Then found out in june she was pregnant I kept this from my gf for about a month till a friend of mine told her thinking she already knew. So I had to work hard to get her trust back but she hates the idea that it cud be mine and said if it is this could be a deal breaker for us but yet shes cool with my 1yr old son by another ex. What should I do?
2006-09-16 18:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex was with me and her bf at the same time.
2006-09-16 18:31:14 · update #1
lol...I love the sarcastic answers..lol...sorry...
Your girlfriend doesn't have a problem with 1 year old's mom, because you didn't cheat on your girlfriend to conceive him! But the new baby would be a steady reminder of your unfaithfulness. But if given the choice, of claiming and supporting your new baby or losing your girlfriend, I'd let girlfriend go! What kind of man does she want you to be? Would she want you to turn your back if she got pregnant? Should the baby pay by not knowing you, because of a mistake you made? How heartless and selfish is this girl? Is that the character of a woman you want to spend your life with? Honey, you need to think about this and point these things out to her!
Good Luck!
And tie that thing in a knot next time!!..lol..
2006-09-16 18:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, think of it from your current gf's perspective; if your ex is carrying your child, that child is going to be a constant reminder of your unfaithfulness to her. That's probably why she hates the idea.
Maybe you should consider a vasectomy. You can't seem to keep your penis to yourself. You lack the ability to remain faithful to only one partner at a time. By the time you find your soulmate, she won't want you because of all of the excess baggage you are creating.
2006-09-17 01:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to start using protection, man. I feel sorry for all of the parties involved, especially the children. Is the girl pretty sure it is yours? if so, you need to support the mom, she is holding your child and should not feel stress. If the new gf cannot deal with this now, how will she treat your baby? Your kid comes first, and if she isnt willing to deal with that then she needs to be the one to leave.
2006-09-17 01:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by proud mommy and wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl doesn't accept the baby if it's yours and your any kind of father then the deal breaker should be you.. I know you were wrong for cheating but if she is willing to forgive you she can not justify taking it out on a baby
2006-09-17 01:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a double standard with your kid and the one on the way. Look, no offense, but if you were screwing around, do you really love the chic you're with anyway? I know I'd choose my child over a man anyday.
2006-09-17 01:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child support for 18 years! haha not bad for a few seconds of orgaism. say good bye to your dreams.
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2006-09-17 01:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save money, get ready for child support.
2006-09-17 01:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a vasectomy to stop spreading kids around ^^
2006-09-17 01:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to keep it in your pants. Eventually she will leave you.
2006-09-17 01:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your questions are getting to hard to believe.. now you're just being ridiculous...
2006-09-17 01:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by ami mena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋