should weight always be a problem in a realtionship??

Question

y does everything crash on weighty issues?? Does weight really matter?? i mean isnt there an equally besutiful person behind the obese one?? So isnt it better if guys give more love to them and motivate them to remove the beautiful femme hidden behind the other one?

Answer 1

hey there.....
even m a bit obese....n went thru a break off,weight being one of the issues for dat break off.......
i dunno m heartbroken.....
i loved him so much but he always liked some other gal coz she was slim n beautiful....
dunno weder there r guys left who love gurls for what they r....but wud like to tell u...."love hurts"....
never fall in love .....
dats an advice from a heartbroken gurl....
take care...

Answer 2

Weight would probably be an issue if you started the relationship one size and later the scales moved up. There should be motivation on the partners side but there may also be a feeling of "you did this to yourself" going on. There's beauty in everyone, no matter what you weigh. Everyone has something different about them. Who's to judge?

Answer 3

hmmm, i'm not entirely sure if what your asking is an insult to women or not. i think guys have some ideal in their head about women being all soft and curvy or whatnot. thus, when that ideal is not met to some extent weight becomes an issue whether it be over or under weight women. by all means, if your significant other is significantly overweight don't be afraid to speak up, just remember to be kind about it. it's one thing to be a little fluffy and another to be so overweight your life is in danger. sometimes it helps when you have that support from someone who genuinely cares about you. and there is no 'hidden behind the other one.' a person can be beautiful even if she's not a size 2.

Answer 4

hey you should watch SHALLOW HAL funny stuff.
Look around, in a recent gooch survey i seen lots blokes that are skinny & lust ova big woman.
Obesity is a world wide epidemic,,so it is a bit of a problem,,only if your not fat.
In another goochy survery i noted that alot of woman dont look after there Butts and atop of this they seem to wear there pants down below therz hips an there butt riders over there hips,..this must cause many health problems & isnt very good 2 look at ,,for some..If youz hav this problems dont worry therz r men that like big butts,,in another gooch survey i noted; a Queen song"fat bottom girls,,.they make z rokng world go round.it became a number 1hit in the Uk.
Also i noted in yet anothr goochy survey that we all have diffrent body shapes and sizes,obesity seems to become a problem on ones health though,,,it can cause anorexia in some and thats not a good look eva.
Gooch also notes that if you are happy with who you are it shines through and that can make someone blossom like a flower.
Remember a smile is the Best look.

Answer 5

I have NEVER been in a relationship where weight was an issue. I would only discuss it if it was a health issue

Answer 6

I don't think weight should be an issue but it usually is, you should only date people who make you feel good about yourself.

Answer 7

It should NEVER be an issue, but unfortunately it is with some people

Answer 8

Not to gals becoz gals are emotional and guys always go on looks!

Answer 9

I THINK NO IT IS USELESS TO SAY THAT A MAN CHANGED BY HEALTH WI THE PASSING OF TIME AND THERE IS ANY PROBLEM IN RELATIONSHIP.

Answer 10

really a problem for many.as maximum oeople have light vehicle licence few have heavy one