She won't watch her own kid at all or is there a reason behind her not wanting to watch it like being left with it while you hang out with friends? the time should be 50/50 on watching the baby and if she just isn't willing to watch the child at all then get rid of her and find a suitable woman that is willing to be a good mother to your child
2006-09-16 18:04:04
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answered by Amy M 5
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Quit obsessing on going out first off. Me and my wife a have two children, ages 4 and 1 and 14months. It has been 2 years since we have been out "partying". She's 32 and I am 30. Our sitters are limited because our sitters are our family and something is always happening with one or the other of them. We, don't gripe to much about not getting out because we look into there little faces and see how blessed we are to have children, especially when there are so many people that can't have children. I understand you are young and want to spread you wings a little. When ever you find yourself thinking about needing to get out, just look at that little face and remember how much love your one year old has for you and will have for you always. And just hug your baby and play. Your baby needs you for guidance everything you do and say helps make the person your child will be.
2006-09-17 01:21:26
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answered by ED S 2
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She doesn't want to watch her own child? Or this is a different girl and the child is yours? If you are a father, don't date girls who don't love kids 'cause you have one. And don't leave your current girlfriend to watch your child while you go out. No fair. Child is your responsibility. If it's the baby's mother who won't watch him/her, tell her she either takes her responsibility or you will get sole custody of the child and leave her. It's not good for a child when the parent won't be responsible.
2006-09-17 01:07:12
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answered by Wiser1 6
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Is it yours togeather? If so she should be a better mom. If its yours and she knew about the child before you started dating then thats wrong. I am pregnant with my first child, but my fiancee has 1 bialogical child and two stepdaughters from a previous marriage and I knew this when we got togeather. They visit every other weekend and when he works I watch them. I love this man and I knew what I was getting myself into. You may want to talk to her, or think about looking for someone who wouldnt mind beeing with you and your precious baby. Good Luck!!
2006-09-17 01:07:52
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answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5
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Two words: Grand. Parents.
2006-09-17 01:05:22
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answered by mithril 6
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you didn't give us enough info to make an informed decision.. maybe neither of you need to be watching a 1yo.
2006-09-17 01:05:28
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answered by ami mena 2
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who's 1 yr old? Hers? Yours? Both?
2006-09-17 01:02:46
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answered by firecracker 2
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hey dude, i read your other qest.if it is not her child i understand.both if she doesn't want the child,because you come as a package get rid of her.
2006-09-17 01:09:20
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answered by bigdog 2
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I guess you will have to get a baby sitter....
2006-09-17 01:03:00
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answered by Anonymous
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