i've liked this girl for 2 years and we're really good friends except she don't want more. i've asked her out twice in the last year and both times she rejected me but that was like 5 months ago. just recently i've asked her if she liked me more and she said she did but she liked someone else too? what should i do? she's hurting me really bad and i really want to be with her. please help?
2006-09-16 17:54:39 · 26 answers · asked by Metallicafreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've gotta respect her decision, dude. Sounds like she's tried to let you down easy about it, too. Stay her friend, but you can't expect her to change her mind. Don't be creepy and pressure her, either, or move in when she gets dumped. No girl likes that.
So she's got no taste.
It's rough, but you will eventually meet someone who likes you for you, and you'll totally sweep her off her feet.
2006-09-16 18:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices: Either wait for her because she is worth waiting for or Move On. She rejected you once, then twice, and the third time she only half-rejected you. But since she did not CHOOSE you over the someone, you can go ahead and consider the third time a rejection too. You know what they say, "The third time's a ...." Do not cause yourself any more heartache than you already have. I suggest you move on with your (love) life.
2006-09-16 18:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happen to me, I was friends with her for 2 years and in the end she liked someone else, she never wanted me "that way". After a while her new boyfriend told her to stop being friends with me and she listened. And now he beats hear sometimes. Good, I DONT CARE. REALLY HAHAHAHA. Now Im in love with someone else and Im happy I never ended up with the first one. LEAVE HER.... these kinda girls are just not good to even look at.
2006-09-16 17:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get her off your mind, i know you like her but get her completely of your mind. Only think of her as a friend for the time being. Step in and act like a friend, Don't ask her out Don't make a move on her Don't do any of that. Ask her to go out with you and hang out like friends. Show her how sweet of a guy you are. If she picks you then there ya go, but if shes doesn't pick you then she only said that to get you to stop asking her out. Just get her off your mind for the time being as hard as it may sound its the best thing for you to do.
2006-09-16 18:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad as it may be, you really cannot make someone return your feelings. Just be friends with her but move on, things will probably never be the way you want between the two of you. Wish I had better news but there it is. Best of luck.
2006-09-16 17:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to be with you, then you are just setting yourself up for more hurt by asking her again. Best for you to just stay friends and you should find someone else.
2006-09-16 17:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll want you more if you're with someone else. Not just to make her jealous, but for your own good. Why waste your time on someone who doesn't want you? Of course that's subject to change over time. She may come around eventually. You'll be happier and she'll want you when she sees you smiling.
2006-09-16 17:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 Stay friends with her. # 2 date other and show her thier are others around. # 3 always let her know that u have a shoulder for her to lean and cry on
2006-09-16 17:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by long time driver n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go for that drama, and don't date her, because she will only hurt you in the end. she told you from the beginning that she didn't want more, and she's telling you the same thing now. just in a different format. move on and face it that she will never be yours. there's some 1 out there who will want you, AND ONLY YOU.
2006-09-16 18:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by tamika r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give up on her. She is not worth your time. Maybe there's a girl that likes you, but she knows that you're still hung up on the other chick. And maybe that other girl is hurting for you. I know that I like a guy that still likes a chick that doesn't like him back. It hurts because I feel that she is the only thing keeping us apart. Give up on this loser chick.
2006-09-16 17:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Victoria♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋