ok the situation is like i really like one of my friend.. He just went to london for his studies (will be coming back in 4 months) we used to be on message everytime he was here. N now hes not here .. yeah i do miss him and those msgs n moments alot n i cant stop thinking about them... we have often exchanged "love u's" n "jaan" et all. but i dunno if they were just a friendly gesture.. The main problem is that im a lil on the heavier side. Hes given me alot of motivation to loose it all.. Ya and i am working on it. But im worried if i tell him about my feelings what will happen.. As a person he likes me.. but just cuz im obese will he turn around? We are very good friends ha... The thing is tht should i tell him about my feelings rite now?? or should i work a lil hard n give him a surprise when he comes back after 4 months and then tell him?? But 4 months is too much n i dont want him to see some1 else in london which is impossible on my side to keep a check on (im in mumbai)
2006-09-16 17:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i have met him many times... we have gone out too...
2006-09-16 18:01:59 · update #1
I'm assuming by your post that you have not yet met this guy personally and that this is, in fact, an online relationship. Have you seen any pictures of this guy or seen him on a web camera? Has he seen any pictures of you? Not that pictures can be trusted, but to me it's better than going into something blind. It sounds to me that you don't even know him personally. I am aware, however, that these types of things happen all the time so my answer to you is that you should worry about your weight ONLY because being overweight is unhealthy. As for him, if he doesn't like you because you're heavy, he isn't worh investing your time in.
2006-09-16 17:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by ms_attention 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your weight shouldn't have anything to do with it, he should like you for who you are not what your not.. Besides you can loose all the weight, but if your not doing it for yourself it will just come back on. He might feel the same way you do and if not at least you will know and can move on. Be brave and say something everyone is beautiful in there own way. If he's not the one Mr. Right is around the corner.
2006-09-17 01:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by starkiis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes friends should remain as freinds and if a guy is going to like u for u your weight wouldnt be an issue
2006-09-17 00:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if some doesn't like you the way you are and you like yourself i wouldn't change for them and if he want to see other girls while he's in London there is nothing you can do about it don't sweat it
2006-09-17 01:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probaly found someone new or he's geting u soething
2006-09-17 00:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by paisley hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him right now.........................Remember the way to say ur feelings- "now or never"
2006-09-17 02:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Karan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM COME BACK
2006-09-17 02:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋