We have a great relationship....and one that she has said is far better than she has with her ex. But yet she cant make that total split. She keeps going back and forth. They have a child so thats understandable to a degree.
2006-09-16 17:41:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they have a kid together you really can't avoid it. They really should stay in touch, for the kid's sake. Just trust her. If she didn't want to be with you, she wouldn't.
2006-09-16 17:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by chd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you use the child as an excuse and don't let her. An ex is supposed to be an ex. She should be friendly and communicate with the father of her child, but she should not be dating him or intimate with him. She would not like it if you were with her one day and all over your ex the next day. She is not being fair to you. If you are letting her mistreat you and play these back and forth games with you, then YOU also share the blame for the situation you find yourself in.
2006-09-17 00:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the depth of the ongoing commitment with the ex. That there is a child involved creates a lasting, deep connection, but you need to figure out if that is all there is to it.
If it's more htan the child, you have a problem, and I would recommend cooling things until she resolves what she wants to do.
2006-09-17 00:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a child. The link is forever there.
If you love her and trust her and just know this will be The relationship to work out, then you have to come to terms that you will never have 100% of her heart.
It's a risk you need to be aware of and willing to take.
But if you want someone who is free to love you completely, find someone else. It's the easier path (but not necessarily the right one) All the best
2006-09-17 00:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing with your head, and you are getting hurt. Plenty of fish in the seas. Go Catch a live one.
2006-09-17 00:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad choice on your part!
The father belongs with the mother, or would you be happy if your father started see another woman?
2006-09-17 00:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to step away for a while. Then she will know if she really wants you or wants to try to repair her relationship with him.
2006-09-17 00:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain you feelings, expect change, and if you don't get it, cut and run. Plenty of Pisces in the sea.
2006-09-17 00:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they cant break it off with their ex.... you need to break it off with them. You are risking big heart break. Good luck
2006-09-17 00:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tracey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get their mind off that person
2006-09-17 00:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by paisley hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋