I am a 20 year old male and a virgin. One of my best friends is also 20. I love her so much and want her to be my first. Neither of us are involved with anyone. She is pretty premiscuous so sex is nothing new to her. I know she loves me but as a friend. There is a catch. I asked her out a year ago and she said no but wanted to remain friends. Would I be out of line to ask her and if not how could I go about doing it?
2006-09-16 17:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out dude if you love her and see a remote possiblity of the two of u ending up together, your first should be special you'll always remember it, do it for the sake of love.
2006-09-16 17:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep waiting, even though you think that this girl is the one that you want to be your first, it may not be so in the future. I'm 22 and still a virgin and I'm happy that I didn't give it away to someone I thought that I wanted to. Also, if you ask this girl and she denied you a year ago, it might just make your friendship awkward, and if you really like the friendship the way it is, I wouldn't chance it, don't ruin a good thing. Besides, when I have sex for the first time, I would love to have it with a virgin, it would make it all the more special, and your sex life would be long because neither or you have tried anything, you would have a life time to try all those positions!
2006-09-17 00:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Christine A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound like a good idea. She has already said no to going out because she did not want your friendship to change. Sex would definitely change things. Then you say she is promiscuous. this would probably cause you pain even if you don't see it now. Also there's the issue of STD's which is a real risk. Wait and you will find a first that's better for you.
2006-09-17 00:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'll sleep with you if she didn't even want to date you. Asking her will just put her on the spot, and make things awkward for both of you. Just stay friends and wait for the right person.
2006-09-17 00:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by chd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all ask her, don't be afraid i mean what can happen she won't kill you or stab you Right? so go for it.
And second of all don't be a shame that you are virgin man, save it for a right girl.
2006-09-17 01:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Detective Emil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAVE yourself for someone who truly cares about you. The love has to be mutual for it to be your best experience possible. God gave you that as a gift, so save it for someone special please. If not, you may regret it, cause this girl who is "promiscuous" may just be using you for sex. Please be careful and do what you feel is right, go with your gut. :)
2006-09-17 00:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never out of line if you are speaking true from your heart.
2006-09-17 00:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it, save it, save it...the right one will appear.
2006-09-17 00:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's promiscuous no. Just don't let it get weird.
2006-09-17 00:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your discription of your friend....apparently it wouldn't have much meaning for her....wait until it means something for the both of you........
2006-09-17 00:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by wallygator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋