so this is the story. me and my boyfriend are always sending pics to one another over the phone. so n e way, one morning he sends me a pic of red roses. i go to the detail part of the pic and see another phone number on the send to list. im like wtf. i am so angry. i want to text back on the other number saying- thank u for the flowers daddy. i loove u too. and hey, by the way why dont u send me a pic of that .....- . now he hasn't called for a week and when i call and text him he doesnt respond. its been a week since i heard from him. so this past wed i call him & leave a voice message-hey i was just calling to c how ur doing, but obviously u don't want to be bothered or you're with some 1 else. he has the nerve to send me a rude text with an exclamation (!) mark. like i've been ignoring him. if i don't hear from him soon, i will send that text to this other number. but im also saying to myself it's over. i deserve an explanation. hurt & confused in texas. HELP
2006-09-16 17:39:21 · 25 answers · asked by tamika r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit calling. He doesn't want to give you an explanation and even if he did, it will never justify what he's done. It just won't ease your pain.
Let him go and move on.
2006-09-16 17:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and lose BOTH those numbers and get on with your life. It will make you happier in the long run and it's a classier move than making it look like you're some desperate jealous woman. I'm wondering why you call some dude who doesn't call or see you for more than a week your "boyfriend"? Is he on active duty in some far away land? Locked away in a Turkish prison? Lost on safari? If not and he's that random about seeing you, he's just an FB and now you know. Better to learn sooner than later. Find someone who plays by the same rules you do. You'll both be happier. Good luck.
2006-09-16 17:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by hrh_gracee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you have already got evidence he's cheating ("So i think of my bf is cheating doing the web ingredient I do have evidence, yet he hides his "cookies" temp archives which could hint what you're doing online.. ") why might you pick to proceed torturing your self searching for added info? merely kick him to the cut back noone merits to be cheated on. i understand its much less demanding reported than performed via fact i'm particular you like him, yet love your self greater. No guy is ever nicely worth your tears.
2016-10-15 02:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is absolutely cheating on you.. though easy for me to say but dont waste ur time thinking about him or destroying your day coz of him... he doesnt deserve your love... go out with friends and have fun...yes you can send the message to that other number if that will satisfy you , and yes, if u need an explaination.. just ask him directly and pretend like its ok and its his lost.. coz uv been faithful to him.. do u believe in karma? if u do, leave it to God... and im sure ,God will give you a good guy.. this experience might be His way inorder for u to learn a lesson, and that next time... u are a stronger person and that made u a better one when it comes to relationships...
2006-09-16 17:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by chesny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question! His behavior is certainly strange and does have a few of the signs of cheating. But until you can talk to him face to face, stay calm and assume nothing.
If he doesn't give you an answer soon, you may want to do some sleuthing and call up the other number. At least know who this other person is. It may not be what you think.
2006-09-16 17:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether he is cheating on you or not he not the one for you obviously or he would have call you or something unless he has a good excuse like his ship went out to sea then leave him alone. Anyway you should have higher self esteem than chasing after some guy who you think was cheating on you. Go an find somebody more worthy of you time.
2006-09-16 17:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by NAZARIEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to know who the other person is and all that but it is important to remember that the only person you should be upset with it your boyfriend & getting into something with the other person will not make you feel any better. some people may consider gathering information/evidence quietly so when you display it all there is no way out, no lies.
2006-09-16 17:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by pbuilder_novis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, he's not worth your time.
My theory is that he realized his mistake after he sent you the pic and was too embarassed to give you an explanation. He should man-up and tell you what's going on instead trying to take the coward's way out.
2006-09-16 17:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by magnadudl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** him in my opinion he got busted let him get caught up in the game . thats why he hasnt called you hes probably like oh **** i send it out to the wrong chick you dont need him there is way to many good men out here to be dealing with one who will eventually break your heart so move on and dont look back its his loss not yours ok good luck
2006-09-16 17:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut...you busted him and have proof. If you continue to chase him you are just feeding his ego...move on, there are many guys out there that would put you on a pedestal and send you real roses.
2006-09-16 17:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by dnstvn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋