I try not to get jealous that my boyfriend has girl's just as freinds . I met all of them and they know i'm his girlfriend , but i dont trust them around them , but i trust him. What should i do . Is it wrong to be jealous? I met them and all and i think there cool . but i still dont trust them.
2006-09-16 17:32:25 · 9 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is normal . I know that when my guy is around other chicks I get jealous. You may be right to not trust them. Other girls will hit on your guy just to watch you flip. Don't do anything rash but warn them if they get tooooo friendly.
2006-09-16 17:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong to be jealous if you don't trust THEM. Just don't let him hang out with them ALONE. You know?! If he's going to hang out with all of them, as in a group, that would probably be ok. But, if he is going to hang out with any of them individually, I would be suspicious! Hopefully he will keep his pants on around these girls. I don't know of any guys who would actually hang out with a "Girl-Friend" while having a girlfriend. That is disrespectful and rude. If he does that, I wouldn't keep him too long. So, good luck to you girl!!
2006-09-16 17:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sure way to lose your relationship. If you are that jealous, I would say no you don't trust your bf quite as much as you say. Because you see, IF you trusted him you would know that he would never do anything with his friends anyhow right?
Insecurity is ok, jealousy is not. It's ugly and destructive. I would try and talk to him or try and work it out within yourself otherwise you are headed down a road I'm not sure you want to head to.........
2006-09-16 17:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal to be jealous. It'd be wrong if you were controlling your boyfriend telling him he can't have any female friends or choosing his friends for him. Let me just say that it's only wrong if your actions based on your feelings are smothering your boyfriend so that he feels trapped by you. If it leads to that you have some jealousy issues
2006-09-16 17:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be alert but don't be to obvious. like look away but still keep an eye on him. This way if girls are flirting they won't know you know what's going on. Oh and if something is going on confront him and tell you how u feel. If he isn't really caring about how you feel then he isn't the right one.
2006-09-16 17:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by selam m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. You are human you know. I think you are bound to be alittle jealous, just don't let it affect your relationship. Also, don't make him give up his friends. If you did that it would really hurt your relationship, maybe even end it.
2006-09-16 17:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by always trying to be helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that all the time too. It's ok. Just talk to your boyfriend aboout it. My boyfriend always reassures me how much he loves me. Just try to calm down. Unless you really believe there's something going on just smile and nod and be friendly. don't be a *****. it'll make girls want to flirt with your boyfriend.
2006-09-16 17:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE JEALOUS , THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO LET
HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT. BUT IF HE HAS NOT
GIVEN YOU A REASON TO NOT TRUST HIM THEN DONT
START SOMETHING THAT YOU MAY REGRET IN THE END.
BECAUSE IT ABOUT TRUST, YOU TRUST HIM OR YOU DONT
IT THAT SIMPLE. YOU SAY THAT YOU DONT TRUST THEM
BUT YOU TRUST HM. IT TAKE TOO TO TANGLE.
2006-09-16 17:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋