Imm with this guy who just asked for a break..
i said ok i guess i didnt have a choice,
i am supportive and nice and im trying to be undersanding that he needs space but his being really mean like we havent spoken in 2 days but he said he wants to talk and were stiill together im just no seeing him..etc
im heart broken and still trying to be nice.
im nice caring not ugly i have blonde hair blue eyes and a pretty good body and his treating me like **** i have met his ex'x and im prettier then all of them..
what do i do, play that game??
could i do better?..
i have a no self of steem and im trying to be nice AHHH HELP
2006-09-16 17:24:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, let him go. If he really liked you he wouldn't need a break. You can do so much better than that.
2006-09-16 17:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trying to be nice is trying to win him back, it's a lost cause, gal.
We can be the most caring , thoughtful supportive person in his life but if he doesn't feel the same way, all our nice gestures and kind words won't move him any closer.
Life sucks that way.
You shouldn't have to play the game if you think it's really dumb to do so. Players need to be heartless. I don't think you fall into that category from your questions.
yes, you can do better. You don't have to try to please a person who is most often deliberately being mean to you. It will only make him more mean and your esteem even worse.
Try not to boost your esteem by getting the fella's affirmation. His opinion is worthless becos his actions show him to be a worthless guy.
Be around friends who love you and that will help you build a healthy esteem!
2006-09-17 00:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche but it is not you, it is him. You can take someone who is a 10 in the looks department, smart as hell, rich caring funny, nice everything a person should want and more, 9 out of ten people still won't want them because they lack that certain spark you get when two people connect. I am very attractive and have been in love with some guys you wouldn't look twice at but they were IT for me. To me they were the hottest most attractive guys EVER. You need to find a guy you have that connection with (hopefully someone hot, nice, smart, funny $...). When you do find the right guy he will make you feel so good, you won't doubt yourself or your relationship.
2006-09-17 00:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are good looking, why pine over a loser that says he needs a break. He's probably out having fun, which you should be doing. I say give him a week, then give up. If he loves/likes you then he will come back. Ive been in that situation before, he came back because he loves me. Dont take it it personally but he's probably a loser, good looking girls are a dime a dozen but good looking girls with personality doesnt come along very often. Go with my advice and it wont stear you wrong. There are more fish in the sea, bait a hook and cast the line. You're bound to find one, sooner or later. Best of luck
2006-09-17 00:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you seem to have lots of self esteem. As for your boyfriend, I'm gonna say that you are gonna have to talk to him and ask him whats bothering him. You sound youngish, so im gonna guess that whats happened here is that he actually likes you alot but is not used to those kinds of feelings so is running away. Best way to deal with this from my stand point is to talk to him, approach at school and just be like can we go for a walk or something then make him talk about whats going on in his head. Then go from there.
Hope that helps
2006-09-17 00:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by H 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl listen to me if a guy asks for a break in a realationship. guaranteed he is looking to mess around and see whats really good out there.my advice to you is let it go be cool and when he trys to come back with some bull **** you dont have to take it hes thinking he can do his dirt all he wants and then come back to you because you would take him back and if i was you i wouldnt i would take this time to just do me there just might be someone way better out here for you put him to the test he just gave you an open invitation to do whatever you want and see who ever you like girl you better take advantage of this have fun and be true to YOUR HEART not just his ok good luck sweetie
2006-09-17 00:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are not going to sit around and wait on him. Life is too short and you have too much to offer someone to sit around and wait on him to decide what he wants. There is someone out there for everyone and there is someone that will not ask you to "give him space". That is an excuse to begin to bail out of a relationship. You make the move. Don't wait on him to bail on you first. Get out there and enjoy your life!
2006-09-17 00:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time when a guy ask for a break he has someone else!!! or he is looking for someone else. you need to ask him do he have someone else because you don't want to sit around and wait on him and he have moved on. check into it because something don't sound right. been there and done that. be careful because you will get your heart broking good luck
2006-09-17 00:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being a jerk then get over him. Tell him what's up. Be like "if you want to still be with me then stop being a jerk" He'll want what he can't have. let him know he won't get you back untill he starts treating u right. Don't ever let anyone treat you badly. Especially not a boy.
2006-09-17 00:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are that good looking than just dump him and go out with a guy who will love to be with you every minute of the day and will never ask for a break.
2006-09-17 00:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋