i am in love with this guy and i have no idea how to get over him cuz i know he doesnt like me..well i dont think he does..we are like best friends and i dont wana ruin our friendship but he is the best guy i have ever met and he knows i like him! he was flatterd and now he flirts with me but said he likes me as only a friend...so how can i get over him..???plz help!?!??!
2006-09-16 17:23:01 · 10 answers · asked by cutie7191 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, there is times when there is someone that we cannot get with. i know it is very hard to face someone that we really like but we not able to get together.perhaps, we really need to learn to accept facts. since he can be so unserious flirting with you but said he just like you as friend,i feel that there is no point to waste time. sometimes guy just will be flattered and enjoy for the attention we gave to him.as for me,i used to do everything when this guy ask for my help but at last he ignoring me because of his girl friend.i do not mind this as i know i have no future with him.but there is something i realise is guy might be just using us for their own sake as they feel that they very important to us. lastly,i advise you try to forget him.if he really does like you,he would not be treats you such a way.
we must be strong to prove that they isnt everything for us.
good luck and i believe you will find someone else that will truly love you.
2006-09-16 17:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yes the guy that only likes you as a friend I had that happen many times to me LOL the best way I got over that guy was hanging out with friends and seeing other guys and realizing that this guy was not the only one out there for me and that is what you need to believe too someday you'll meet a guy and when you tell him that you like him he will like you back too
2006-09-16 17:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, cheer up yah.
Sometimes, it's disheartening to know that the one you like doesn't reciprocates the way u wish he wld.
It's hard to get over the person but when you r determined, you will be able to, though time is another factor to consider.
Take a short vacation or something.
Hang out more with your girl pals.
Have fun and meet more guys.
You'll find someone out there more suitable for you,
i believe there's someone who will treat you better.
Cheers.
2006-09-16 17:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by nadia z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do, if you are sure he only wants to be friends, is to make new friends and only see him occasionally. You will eventually get over him. Or...maybe he'll miss being with you and come around!
2006-09-16 17:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not thinking of him as a boyfriend and just a friend;true friends are hard to come by be glad he was honest with you he could have played you he sounds like a decent guy maybe in time he'll change his mind,but i wouldn't wait on it.
2006-09-16 17:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you here about the termite that walked into a bar , He asked (is the bar tender here).
get it the bar was made from timber lol
time will heal you just put one foot in front of the other and keep going
2006-09-16 17:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to get over him, try to get a new guy to "Hang Out" with. It's better. Or if you think he doesn't like you try to make him jealous. Good Luck!
2006-09-16 17:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweetie....this is not Love. There is nothing to "get over". Just be friends and ltake it for what it is. You are making something complicated that does not exist. Stop it!
2006-09-16 17:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get over him-u have to be willing to really GET OVER HIM.
and also..is there a reason why u HAVE to get over him? just cuz he duznt like u like u like him..duznt mean u have to 4get him..rite? but if he takez ur feelings for granted and plays with ur mind then u shud forget him by spending ur time doing sumthing or else or try to meet a guy that likes u and u like him. =)
2006-09-16 17:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ACCEPT HIS RESPONSE
2006-09-16 17:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋