Theres a guy at my school I'm totally into, but i can never get the nerve to talk to him. Usally my hands shake and i don't have anythign to say or any words form in my mouth. I feel stupid because usally i go to talk to him and just stand there staring at him. He's really cute and from what his sister tells me he's always talking about me and likes me to. I just don't want to mess up I guess......Help? ANy adivice on how i can get myself up the nerve to talk to this boy.
2006-09-16 17:19:51 · 11 answers · asked by brittany s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THanks for the help so far you guys. maybe i can convince hsi sister to let me come and hang out wiht her and he'll end up showing up. Youg ugys helped .
2006-09-16 17:40:04 · update #1
Ask his sister to find a way for you guys to hang out, even if it means that she has to come. It can't hurt, besides her being there might help you get over your nerves. That way you can get to know him and have more things to talk about.
2006-09-16 17:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've definitely been there before. At least it sounds like he likes you back, which makes it a little bit easier. When you go to talk to him...don't forget to breathe. have some idea of what you're going to say; don't expect it to just come to you when you walk up to him, because that's the very moment your brain will always decide to stop working. Don't try to have deep, meaningful conversations with him at first. Just comment on the day, the weather, your classes, etc. And keep in mind that he's just as nervous as you are, so once you start talking comfortably to him, he'll feel more at ease and the conversation should move along smoothly. Good luck!
2006-09-16 17:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically... "Accidentally" full on smash into him in the hall (Make sure your not late for class) and say hi, If he likes you, (Like I think he does) he wont notice your nervous, because he will probably to...
(Sense i know you in person, here is a little personal info to help)
He seems like the shy kind, You a little more out going, some times.. My guess is that he will be more nervous then you will be, just act casual, like you do around me and the group, be yourself, And just make small talk, say hi, ask what class he just had, what class is he going to, small things like that, if it helps imagine he is someone you know to take some pressure off, or talk to his sister to see what he likes, and talk about them, it should make the conversation a little more easier..
Don't worry, saying Hi is all ways the hardest part... (if you really want to make is interesting, just act how i didn't when you introduced me to my current girlfriend, i think you remember that night, i was a little weird to say the least.. haha)
Any how, good luck to you brittany!
2006-09-16 17:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by louie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm yourself...like I always tell myself when I'm talking to a guy I like, he's just a guy or like your brother. But if that fails, go for the old standby, "accidently bump into him" he'll be flustered and probably wouldn't notice that you're nervous at all!
2006-09-16 17:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by DaznShaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shud start hanging with him. but dont follow him. lol ... (not to be mean) but u can talk to him and hopefully things will take off from there. or find a witty way to ask him out! =P
2006-09-16 17:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to the guy.if he is talking about you that more than likely means he is hot for you as well.also you could write him a note, some people who have trouble talking to people find it easier to write a note or letter.
2006-09-16 18:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by zodiac17340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just "casually" bump into him and be all like "what's up?" start a convo from there. sry, i kno this advice wont really help, but i tried. good luck!
2006-09-16 17:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to his sister and have her get him to talk to you.... or just go talk to him. if you really like him you gotta get the lady balls to tell him. otherwise he'll never know, and you'll never get what you want.
2006-09-16 17:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by ctwrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day just say 'hi' to him and then walk away if you are that nervous. just smile at him until you feel you can say something.
2006-09-16 17:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by kelsy!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋