how should i approach and introduce myself effectively to a girl that juz caught my attention?

Question

i've been wasting a lot of chances of approaching pretty girls in my neighborhood coz i did't know how to make a move....pls help me.

Answer 1

You just gotta be confident..you're not approaching because you have a fear of rejection. Now to get over this fear do three things.

1. Slap yourself.
2. Thank God that I'm answering this question for you.
3. Imagine the worst case scenario that you can envision, and laugh at it.

It's a psychological thing. You'll find most girls are nice when you approach them, escpecially when you don't act like a creepy stalker../nerd/geek. You also need to have good hygiene, but don't do you're hair all doish up. make it look like you spent time on it, but the sorta crass look.

This advice should help, (assuming you know how to flirt and have half-way decent self-esteem)

Answer 2

She needs to spend time thinking about you, and she needs to come around to the idea of you being together, and it being her idea! Introduce yourself on some pretext - can you ask her for directions, or if she's seen someone around? When she's spoken to you a few times and you haven't mentioned dating at all, just how are you, nice day isn't it, I must go, I'm off to see Uncle Larry in hospital, blah-blah, she will get the most favourable image of you, as you are revealed slowly.
Or, swagger up to her, "Can we get a cup of coffee?" "NO!"
What women want? They want control. And I've seen lots of guys successfully play this slow-reveal game, and it works. First be a dot on the radar, then have her move in. Oh, and are there any salsa or tango dance classes around your area - that's a great place to take her, or meet lovely ladies with a passion for life.
That's where I got my wife!

Answer 3

I'm a Renowned Ladies Man so I think I know what I'm talking about... Here's some great chat up lines that ALWAYS work.


...Hey baby, is Heaven missing an Angel?

...I think they should Rearrange the Alphabet and stick "U" and "I" Together.

...Want some of this Sweet-Cheeks? "Then when she Tries to Slap you Grab her Arm, Look Deep into Her Eyes and Pucker up, Hot-Stuff!"

...I Dropped my Pen, could you Bend Over and pick it up? "If she agrees move close to her and simulate Anal Sex while looking over at your friends... It may not be sex but it's close enough."


..."If any of these for some reason DON'T work and she says she doesn't want you, there's only one thing you can do... Tell her that one way or another you're going to have her tonight (while simulating The Art of Masturbation with your right hand), give her a cocky little smile, perhaps a wink and say: So you may aswell be there".

Answer 4

Be confident, believe in yourself,have faith.

Have the courage and approach her and tell her what you feel.
If she reject you you`ll know at least you have tried.Maybe you`ll be lucky next time.So be couragious and have faith.

Answer 5

Just be yourself, just talk normally, don't be scared because she'll be nice to you and will be happy that you're talking to her.

Just say you saw her around, you're from the same neighbourhood and wanted to introduce yourself.

Answer 6

Women like and respect honesty , sweet but strong guys .
No silly games , tell her you would like to get to know her , show interest in things that she enjoys and you'll do great .
Oh yeah we can feel confidence and like that ,but don't like arrigance .

Answer 7

Start by saying hello that helps

Answer 8

wait till it's raining and then give her your umbrella and walk away.
make sure you bump into her the next day

Answer 9

I agree with geedebb above.

Answer 10

confidence- love yourself others will follow