I don't know what we are exactly but tonight he and his friend are buying liquor and having some people over and its already midnight . I'm not stupid . I don't trust ANYONE. I have a baby and obviously no baby sitter , so I can not go. His friend said I get a babysitter ang go next weekend . That remark just pissed me off. This guy doesn't understand that I can't just ship my kid off with someone else. Besides it costs a bunch of money. I liked talking to this guy and I have no friends now. What should I do . I know am I jealous .
2006-09-16 17:14:17 · 19 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh, excuse me, I don't know this. It's just an impression.
But it SOUNDS like you've fallin in LOVE with this guy and you are REALLY ANNOYED by your OWN feelings.
Anyway, that's how your question READS to a stranger.
2006-09-16 17:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son also. I am kind of a single mom for the fact that my man is in the navy in japan. What I would do is find some other single mom's in your area to hang out with. And ya know what I think, if that guy can't come hang out with you and your baby then I wouldn't give him the time of day. Because he doesn't understand that your child is important and that you need to be with him. If he doesn't see that you can not go out drinking all the time then I wouldn't be with him. I mean a lot of the time I just stay home have my girlfriends over and play video games or watch movies. The baby doesn't need to go out and who knows what a baby sitter would do to you child. I only trust family. I hope I am not being to bold, but it just seems to me that this guy just doesn't understand at all. I hope it all works, you can email me or instant message me if you like. If you want to talk or need someone to listen.
2006-09-16 17:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by jr272004slady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do believe you don't understand he probably isn't ready to give up his life just because you have a kid by someone else.
Oh, and LOVE how the whores on here are giving the guy hell for something he didn't even say... her message read, "His friend said I get a babysitter ang go next weekend ." NOT the guy she likes.
2006-09-16 17:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first if u have a kid you shouldn't go to a party drinking unless u give your kid to your mother or father or something over night u can come home drunk with your baby there that's not setting a good example and if u want to have sex with this guy were a condom cause u have one kid and want to put her somewhere while u go partying so don't do anything stupid and it doesn't matter if u have friends or not u have your child and that's all that matters that he or she is healthy and safe just be careful with what u do because it has consequences
2006-09-16 17:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait on the guy to have one on one time with you. If he likes you for you, it will happen. You don't need him and bunch of his drunk buddies to be with him. As far as the other guy's remarks. It was probably stated matter of factly. "Can't go this weekend, get a sitter and party with us next weekend." You're right, he doesn't understand. But I don't think he meant anything by it. There's a reason they call some people 'clueless'.
2006-09-16 17:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous of what??? You already have an illegit kid and now you are wanting to booze it up with a looser? You need to evaluate your priorities, sweetie.....what is the matter with you???? Having people over and buying liquor....Translation: It is a sex party!!! The guy is a looser and you, too, are going down that path!
2006-09-16 17:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, you're right don't leave your baby with a babysitter. Secondly, dont' go with this guy, he seems very immature to make that remark to leave your child like that. No you're not jealous its a normal reaction. YOu do have friends, contact me.
2006-09-16 17:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont do anything you dont want to do. second you are a mother so i would stay home with your baby. dont just leave the baby at home to be with this guy. he not worst it if he talk to you like that. about the friends thing. you should meet friends that good and not party too much. well if you need to talk just email me ok. good luck
2006-09-16 17:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are pretty much stuck. I don't really think you have anything to be jealous about though, you are the one that chose to have a baby not him.
2006-09-16 17:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by jmlmmlmll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real, ur PRIORITIES are in the right place F** him! u know what's up and its just people like that that don't take care of their own business keep up the good work i know its hard I'm a single mother as well i applaud u for standing up!
2006-09-16 17:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋