MY MOTHER STARTED DATING A MAN, THEY ARE NOW LIVING TOGETHER. HIS SON AND I BECAME GREAT FRIENDS STRAIGHT AWAY. IT HAS BEEN A YEAR NOW AND LAST NIGHT THINGS BEGAN HEATING UP BETWEEN US. I HAVE ALWAYS SORT OF LIKED HIM, BUT NEVER THOUGHT IT WOULD GO ANYWHERE. MY MUM AND HIS DAD KNOW WE ARE CLOSE, BUT IS IT WRONG TO BE SEEING MY MUM'S BOYFRIENDS SON? HE IS A COUPLE OF YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. PLEASE HELP, I DON'T KNOW IF I AM DOING THE RIGHT THING!
2006-09-16 17:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by tam_wink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey....this all sounds fine if you live in either Appalachia, or Arkansas. Best of luck to your future children, and their banjo playing abilities....
2006-09-16 17:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by frankgrimes.rm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't related by blood. It may be a tad odd to some people who can't get over the 'but they might be brother and sister' thing, but it's not morally or ethically wrong. I just wouldn't parade the fact that your boyfriend's your mother's boyfriend's son. Just know that if you and him or mom and her boyfriend broke up things would be extremely uncomfortable for quite a while. It's a bit like a soap opera to be honest with you...
2006-09-16 17:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much younger is he?
It's not a huge moral issue per se but it could be complicated and if you have a fight or break up and he lives at your house it'll be a living hell. I'd try and hold things off until you can get some space between you, IE one of you moves out.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 17:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically there is not any problem with dating him, yet merely be arranged for issues to get weird and wonderful contained sooner or later. #a million in the adventure that your mom and her boyfriend smash up and you and the b/f's son stay mutually it could make for extremely awkward kinfolk gatherings. #2 in case you mom and her boyfriend stay mutually and get married, then you definately and your boyfriend would be step-brother & sister, which sounds a sprint "West Virginia" to me. base line, as long as the two you and him are arranged for any awkward moments contained sooner or later, you will desire to choose for it
2016-10-01 01:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty wrong and if your mother's married how come she has a boyfriend? well for starters you should see if he is the right guy plus it's kinda wrong because what if he's like a brother for yoou, well this is coming from my mind and heart. Follow your heart!
2006-09-16 17:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can be not only step brother and sister, but husband and wife, and your dad can be your uncle too. Just think of all the possible combinations!
But seriously, if you love each other who cares. You have no blood relationship so go for it.
2006-09-16 17:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by nr91326 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ethically and legally it's ok (as long as you're both consenting adults if you ever...).
But remember that things might get a little sticky at home if you ever break up (or if you dont but your mom and his dad do!). It might get a little akward.
2006-09-16 17:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure would be, I mean if your mother gets married to this guy, then you and this boy will be like bro and sis, and that is absolutely wrong.
2006-09-16 17:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although you both are not blood related but its not good if, i said if, you mother and his boyfriend got married that means you both are brother and sister and common sense that relationship dosen't work, unless you mom and his boyfriend broke up then you will stand a chance .
2006-09-16 17:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock it off, this is dynamite. He knows too much about your mom and you know too much about his dad. And your parents know too much about you both and will spy on you.
Stop now before you're sorry.
2006-09-16 17:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋