Ok I’ll be quick. I can't have a girlfriend and college together. Because my damn college takes so much time and pressure. For me College and my future is more important then a girl at list for now. So here is a Question would you rather to have a girlfriend or boyfriend while you at college but you wont be so successful in future or you rather to be successful and after that you can have a girlfriend or boyfriend?
2006-09-16 17:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by Detective Emil 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Honestly?Ok, well, you need that education more than a distracting girlfriend right now.That education you'll always have, her, well, maybe not, who knows! She needs to go, get the education right now. When your finished with all of your schooling you'll be able to have a great job then. Then will be the time for a girlfriend/spouse, and you'll have the education and a good job to take care of a companion and maybe even your own family. Not trying to come off as being sarcastic, just honest. You've got plenty of time for all of that, do the education thing right now, that matters the most. Good luck in all that you do.
2006-09-16 17:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather finish college as a success. There will always be a time when you can start a relationship but college you can only do right once. Plus that doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun now and then, you don't need a partner for that.
2006-09-17 00:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to make friends. That doesn't have to lead to a relationship. College is about experiences -- and if all of your experiences are classes, studying, papers and tests, you will have gained knowledge, but will you have laughed?
It's a well known fact that laughter is a stress reliever, and it helps the body cope. So, be sure to hang with friends and share in some laughter. No need for alcohol (which will interfere with your studies), but taking a night off here and there won't hurt.
And, if there is someone there whom you really click with, don't turn around and walk away because "you don't have time" -- be honest about your commitments to your studies, and build time into getting to know her.... build on all parts of your life. Otherwise you might wake up at 30, and wish you had done things differently.
2006-09-17 00:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by kaliselenite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it doesnt matter what our advice is for you...because it is what you want...noone can give good crucial advice that actually helps if it is something you actually desire..so all im gonna say is if you want a gf real bad....and you try putting it off cuz you wana be successful but the issue keeps coming up...then maybe you should follow your heart...does that make sense...im in college and i know how you feel...but...i dunno it can be done....cuz i mean i have a similar situation...but kinda different lol..you can email me if you need some more advice or just wanna talk about it..good luck
2006-09-17 00:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be successful, it is especially crucial for a guy to have a successful life , all the good stuff will follow after you have made what you wanted out of yourself. and you will have regrets , incase of any breakups in the future
2006-09-17 00:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sort out your education and then you'll have money to invest in future relationships regarding providing for a family.
2006-09-17 00:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by aintagonnagetmea@yahoo.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats a hard one i think the school thing first if your succesful then you can always go from there. But you can always find a good girl to help you be succesful and stand behind you too, if you find the right one
2006-09-17 00:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by mike L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL--When I was in college I helped my boyfriend study and he began making top grades only after we started dating.
It's all in how you go about it; your life doesn't have to be in conflict unless you want it to be.
2006-09-17 00:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um..date but don't have relationship so that you can focus on what you need to
2006-09-17 00:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by brazilianbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask...you're probably with the wrong girl! :-)
2006-09-17 00:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sephora 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋