Hi, I'm 19 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Now I flirt with guys all the time, and I don't think Im a troll. I don't understand. Help please! I need some mad advice, and please just don't tell me to "be myself" that is not advice, that is stating the obvious.
Thanks!
2006-09-16 16:58:24 · 12 answers · asked by H 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not pathetic, since youve never had a boyfriend it's perfectly natural for you to be flirting on a regular basis it's called curiosity dont worry about it. im 21 by the way lol it's normal!
2006-09-16 17:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just young why rush things when you have your whole life to feel hurt and pain from relationships.
well if flirtting is not working take the bull by the horn and ask te guy you ike out for coffee and chat it up!!! You even wonder if the guys may think you already have a boyfriend and don't want get rejected because of it!!! At your age you may not be the dating type you maybe the marrying type. You could be the kind guys want to marry not date. the ones they date are for sex not marriage. only time will tell. take care don't rush it and good luck.
2006-09-17 00:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried an online dating site? Sometimes these work great because you can get to "know someone" before you ever meet and you are more in control of the situation and how often you talk. Christian Mingle is a good site to meet people. Even to find friends. I have met so many nice people thru this site. Good luck.
2006-09-17 00:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I won't tell you to be yourself ... in those words, rather: Many people are in the same position as you are and it makes you no more or less special than the next person. Guys will find something that makes you unique.
2006-09-17 00:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by tasialen1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean u just might not be as ready as u think but if u think that u are i mean start makin the first move especially with a guy u r interested in ask him out or hint him off long enough for him to ask u just take more action
2006-09-17 00:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you fit and do you bathe regularly? that may sound silly but it is very important. i would stop watching daytime tv, lest you become like the trash you see there regularly.
find yourself a hobby that u truly enjoy that others will share with you. i like to bike and swim so i do both in different places and even do races. i like healthy women and i get to meet them at these places.
2006-09-17 00:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh cmon.
you are only 19. 19 for pete's sake.
so much time. take it from an old man like me. im freaking 27.
and my life sucks.
enjoy what u got. live it up.
2006-09-17 00:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not pathetic, it's normal.. Maybe you just don't want to or.. You're the one who never give a try? Go ask yourself in a mirror what's your weakness, learn it, and correct it! And go hunt to the wild!
2006-09-17 00:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by polaris_innocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, , IM THINK THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. YOU
JUST HAVE NOT FOUND THE RIGHT ONE. BUT HE OUT THERE SO DONT LET IT WORRY YOU SO MUCH, YOU 19
IT NOT LIKE YOU WONT FIND SOMEONE. HE HAS NOT
PASS YOUR WAY YET, BUT GET OUT THERE AND MINGLE
TALK. AND IF SOMEONE CATCH YOUR EYES THEN IT
NOTHING WRONG WITH MAKING THE FIRST MOVE. BUT
HANG IN THERE. THERE WILL BE PLENTY OF MEN IN
THE FUTURE.
2006-09-17 00:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not pathetic
maybe there's something about you that guys don't like?
i don't know because i don't know you
maybe the way you flirt with them or something
good luck
2006-09-17 00:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by made4level27x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋