It's a scary thought spending forever with just 1 person so i was just wondering if any of you girls that were around my age (17) ever feel like you were scared but were pretty sure you loved your boyfriend at the time but think about the future way too much? Did you feel scared like me and feel like you don't want to well not that but i can't explain but anyways i want to hear from the girls who have been through that and are still with that person today whether it's engaged or married and are happy. I know it's normal to be scared but i want opinions!
and i don't want to end up running away from it from being scared
2006-09-16 16:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Jaylee P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, I was always scared of making a commitment though because when you are young you always think you are going to miss out on something. Now I am 20 and we are engaged, it is one of the best decisions I have made in my life. Instead of thinking how terrible it was to be so young and in love, he has shown me some of the best things in life. It is scary at first, but if you both truly love each other it can be the most amazing relationship!
2006-09-16 16:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by cute_mami_alwayz23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand exactly what u mean i was 18 when i met my now fiance' which was 6 years ago i had already been a relationship with a dude that i thought i was in love with and i had a baby when we first got together i was scared as hell because i really liked him but after being dogged out before i really wasnt sure if i wanted to risk it pllus he is older than mei used to think about the future wondering if i could see myself with him forever or even if i wanted to be with him forever it the fear was only short term we are still together and i love him to death i wouldnt trade him for anything
2006-09-17 00:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's me all the way! I am always thinking about the future. One thing I concerd about is what will he do to hurt me? Will he and his x hook up again. Today I just cried because I'm so scared of what he'll do? I look into the future sometime and see us together and some times I look into the future and see us apart and I'm so hurt. I'm not your age but I'm around your age 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 23:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i'm just 15
but stop think so much about the future and start thinking about the present
you're still young live your life to the fullest
but i also think having one partner forever can happen but rarely
2006-09-16 23:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a man but my wife and I got married when she was 18 and iI was 21 and we have been married for 14 years(just celebrated anniversary)...we are still happy...good luck
2006-09-16 23:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by cooter_brown872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have that and i am engaged and might be pregnant as well and i do think about things like that
2006-09-16 23:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young and your probably scared that you haven't experienced everything you could.
if your sure you love him
dont worry about it
but if you really think you need to be free and experience things then you should talk to him about it. explain what your feeling.
2006-09-16 23:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to think about the future, whats not ok is not living in the present! you need to be living now, love your boyfriend for who he is now. key word = now!
2006-09-16 23:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋