you see i really like this girl and i think she likes me also, but i only like her as a friend because i'm not physicaly or sexualy atracted to her.
you may think i'm shallow because of the way i chose not to get in a relationship with her but its a huge part of any relationship. i'm not sure what to do!! please help
2006-09-16 16:42:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey man i know exactly what your talking about! the same stuff happened with me too. im not shallow, but if it disgusts you to think of kissing her you got a problem. think about it that way. tell her you want her as a friend, and you dont want to ruin the good friendship you have and make it awkward by going out with each other. it will work. trust me.
later man
tyler
2006-09-16 16:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by psymon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry yet i are not getting the pair section. xD in any case, merely chillax. that's the 1st step, you will get nowhere stressing out and not in a comfortable physique of ideas. merely be your self round her, and hint which you're intrested in her, by ability of touching her (non pervertive way), whispering to her while an threat comes up, merely be on the threshold of her. She'll get the belief, and while the time is physically powerful, merely tell her quite the way you sense, and which you have been completely shy to ask her out formerly. (each and every now and returned ladies think of it quite is lovable) Then ask her, if she's evaluate going out with you. (make it humorous, whether it ability asking her if she'll be your sugar mama) xD which will fa sho make her chuckle. determine you tell her that if she's not waiting to respond to, she will answer you later. (this might tutor you will provide her some area while she desires it) merely chillax aight? solid success mang~
2016-10-15 02:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me. I've been with very pretty girls and have them be complete wrecks after the luster of a new relationship fades. You need to ask yourself if you want something for the short term or the long term. Short term...go for the looks and have your fun, but if its a meaningful and fulfilling relationship your looking for...you're gonna have to really put in on the personality. Although physical attraction is important in a relationship, remember that we will not always be blessed with the benefits of youth. Good luck mate.
2006-09-16 16:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Codpiece 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong w/u choosing NOT to get in a relationship w/her. we all have our own desires and if we feel they/re NOT met, then the dicison is probably right NOT to go thru w/them. i always use the philosophy "when in doubt, do without" just explain things to her, nicely, yet NOT sugar-caoting anything, and let her know u still wanna be friends. u can't help the way u feel and if she's any kinda of girl, she'd rather ur honesty and will very much respect it. who knows maybe being friends will lead to an attraction! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-16 16:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every relationship pretty much starts with attraction physically. if youre shallow, that's okay...and props for actually admitting it. most people are but they deny it. just don't lead her on if you dont like her as more than a friend.
2006-09-16 16:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not like you sexually or physically either. just be her bud and make sure she knows yall are just friends. and if you get jealous if she goes out with another male friend, then you do like her for more than that. and its too late now. keep your emotions in check.
2006-09-16 16:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. Sexual attraction isn't everything in this world. She might appreciate your honesty. Honestly.
2006-09-16 16:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are shallow
u like her as JUST a friend
tell her that you only like her as a friend
she has to deal with that
2006-09-16 16:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kappy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need the friends first and see if anything happens from there?
2006-09-16 16:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by toonotshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a friend card put on it thank u , your the bestes friend i got ,
2006-09-16 16:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by libra23_56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋