My ex has started going out with one of my newest friends and they are SERIOUSLY in love. I was so jealous and depressed I emailed him telling him how I felt, and he was sort of nasty back. How do I make things the same between us? I really like him.
2006-09-16 16:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG!!! this same thing happened to me except it was with the guy that i use to like and i was kinda (well we both were) nasty back.
all you have to do is ask him:
are we cool and stuff friends wise or something like that
when i asked Joe (lets just say thats his name) he replied with:
yeah we cool friend wise
it totally works
do the same in your condition
2006-09-16 16:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "the same between us." If you want to be friends with him, you have to apologize. Tell him you are sorry and that your email was very out of place. Tell him that it will never happen again, and that you would be happy to be friends with him.
If what you want is for him to be your boyfriend again, then you have to do the same stuff as I describe above, but once he breaks up with your friend, then move in as a loving and supportive girl. Until then though, you have to be a good friend and support their relationship and apologize for the inappropriate email.
Good luck :)
2006-09-17 00:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, you need extreme patience. I have something similar going on right now. My ex and I are still pretty good friends, but we have plenty of fights. She hasn't really dated my friends, but the point is I am waiting for the right time. That's what you should do too. Just pray that it doesn't work out for them and that he will eventually realize what you have to offer him.
I still obsess over my ex, Alyssa, and it's been since February. I really think she and I are meant to be together so I just have faith in God that He will make her realize this eventually. I think about her every single day, but I try not to let it get me too gloomy. That's what I suggest you do. Best of luck to you, and remember, this is only possible with your faith and patience.
2006-09-16 23:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if him and your friend like each other alot and they're happy together then leave him alone and just move on, cuz obviously he moved on and if you're a good friend you'll let them be. if he answered back meanfully then that should give you a hint that he doesn't feel the same as you anymore. you cant do anything to make things between you two the same because things aren't the same anymore. Just move on girl!
2006-09-16 23:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to get away from this guy and your "friend". They hurt you very deeply. They will hurt you again. They are selfish, selfish people. I think you should find a female friend to talk to and do things with for a while. You need to heal. .........I know in my past, there are people that did treated me poorly. Their attitude was to get what they wanted and leave a path of destruction. They don't care. People like that are evil. Get away from them and be only with loving, caring people. If you cannot find anyone, get a pet dog or cat. Animals always love you unconditionally. Also, I have met people on Match.com for friends. Get to know people before you give your heart. Best wishes..........
2006-09-16 23:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by rasckal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will probably never be the same between you again. I mean, he can't possibly respect you if he moves right on to one of your friends. It sounds like you're better off without him and should move on to someone better.
2006-09-16 23:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anything. If he likes you, he likes you and if he doesn't, he doesn't. I know that sounds too easy, but it is just the way it is. You can't force him to be in love with you. He must be an ex for a reason.
2006-09-16 23:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way your just going have to move on and be content that someone is making him happy even though it sounds hard it works i know i went through somthing like that myself.
2006-09-16 23:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by chomboso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you probably can't get him to be with you like he was before. I would cool it until you can get your feelings under control. I wouldn't wait too long on him as it may never work out for you and him to get back together.
2006-09-16 23:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's rarely care how you feel about them moving on. Move on and quit trying to communicate with someone who loves someone else. You need to find your own guy and this all will cease to be a problem.
2006-09-16 23:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Milan J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋