Ok, I like this guy, he's so sweet, he reminds me of myself. But, I'm always covered in jealousy when he's around other girls, SKINNIER girls. Weight has always been such a problem to me, I am very insecure. He's not exactly flirting... he's just talking.. but I don't think we would be very good together.. its just the fact of the girl bigger then the guy is kind of weird. As I said, I do not think of my self as pretty at all. I'm so confused :'(
2006-09-16 16:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by x0xbleedblackx0x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to work on your issues or you are going to drive him and many other guys off with your jealousy. Some guys do like girls that are a little bit bigger.
2006-09-16 16:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said they girl bigger than the guy is weird?
When I was married I was probably a little over 200. My husband was 140 if he was having a fat day!
But I do know how you feel. We all need to work on our self esteem somehow. I just lost a ton of weight. OK not a ton really. But my goal is to have lost 100 lbs. by Halloween. And I am very close to it. But when I look at myself I can't see that I have lost anything! Get some help. I know I need to.
2006-09-16 23:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing how I have never felt very good about myself either this is more about self esteem than "If" you should "get" together with this guy... How does he treat you and is he wanting a relationship? Does he say nice things to you then shun you when others are around? Those last two questions, if your answer yes to them then your correct, you shouldn't be together. But, like they say you gotta LOVE yourself to be able to LOVE anyone else... And Mutt and Jeff got along just fine. That's in the history books :)
2006-09-16 23:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by tiggytail2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey as u know guys r pretty immature till they are around 18 or 20...its only then that they begin 2 realy choose the ideal girl 4 themselves...till then they just go 4 pretty faces 'n all...but in case you didnt knw all guys actually laugh 'n ***** about the cheerleaders etc with whum they have flings calling them cheap 'n stupid....whoa harsh yes but that's the truth....but if the guy is realy looking 4 real pure love 'n all then there will b no weight or watsoever probs 4 u coz then he probably likes u in d same way.......b confident....evry1 is unique 'n have their own beauty......so GO for him!!! 'n bset of luck!
2006-09-16 23:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by frekin_out _badly..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....a pretty and skinny girl can be just as confused, honey. It's being confident in yourself. While external appearances and personal taste are first and foremost to pursuing an attraction toward someone...it's close and continued contact that draws them in deeper. One would hope. Good luck girlie!
2006-09-16 23:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go thru the same with my bf hey, his not doing anything wrong but im always lookin for the first sign of him being interested in someone else. maybe u could give yourself sometime off from guys and concertrate on yourself cause if u dont love yourself no one else will..
2006-09-16 23:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Melly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r letting ur self esteem problems ruin a relationship?
thats not fair
be proud of who u r no matter what the scale says.
if u r confident with ur self it dont matter how a person looks.
u r with the person for his/her personality not the way they look.
if he likes u best of luck and be urself (not the fat person in ur head but ur personality)
2006-09-16 23:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright,listen your self esteem is low.who cares if hes talking to other girls your the one he chose to be with think about it.your the one he chose not them .so obviously he sees something in you that you don't.stay with him and think highly of yourself OK.
2006-09-16 23:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by becky p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need more self esteem
go see a counsellor or someone
or you could go to the gym
2006-09-16 23:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋