at those times he was 18 and 19. when i was 15, all we did was make-out. but then when i was 16, we started talking again online and on the phone, and mostly all he would talk about was sex. and how he wanted to go out with me. and then we got to talking about how he was going to be "my first" and that we would go to a hotel or something and he would be gentle and stuff. and he would just go into major detail and tell me that i needed to be calm and stuff and how hot i was but he would only do it if i was sure. so we finally went out, and we made out alot in his truck and then he fingered me over and over again. and i didn't really want to do it anymore because i was so scared and i knew that i was underage, but i never said no. never. so now, i still talk to him, but i can't help but thinking he is a pervert. because he still wants to go out with me again. and i don't know what to do.
he doesn't stalk me or anything, he is actually pretty nice, but i am underage.
2006-09-16 16:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can he get into trouble for what he did? even though he said he would only go as far as i wanted, and he would only do anything if i was sure, i just don't want putting pressure on any other girls like me.
we didn't have sex, but i know he wanted to. and i know that he knew what he was doing was wrong, because a cop drove by and he said oh sh*t and covered my lower body.
2006-09-16 16:17:48 · update #1
i don't love him. i just still talk to him, because i dunno, i just have this weird need to have a guy in my life. and i kinda have low self esteem so at times it feels like he is the only guy who will ever be interested in me...so that's why i still talk to him...i am 17 now, and he is almost 20.....
2006-09-16 16:21:32 · update #2
You need to stay away from this guy. He is just trying to live out a perverted fantasy he has. If this isn't a guy you truly love then you should probably wait to have sex. Make sure you do it with the right person because you will have to live with it for the rest of your life.
2006-09-16 16:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys at his age usually think about sex. His hormones are racing and he is trying to satisfy his impulses. You have not said at one time in your question that you care about him or love him. I know this may sound "old fashioned", but sex should be something between two people who care deeply for each-other. At your age,are you ready for the commitment of possibly an accidental pregnancy or a disease that he might transmit to you, or the fact that you just aren't ready to make this guy you feel might be a "pervert" your "first". I would tell him to leave you alone til you are a little older and more ready to decide if this is the type of relationship you want to have with him. If he doesn't, tell your parents or the police. Good Luck!
2006-09-16 23:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by janice r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I would rather you wait to engage in things like this the fact being that you are underage and that if you get pragnant or catch an std these things could stick with you for life I've seen my sister go through with the same situation and she ended up pregnant I just hate to have heard from you that everythings gone down the drain I am a guy and yes I know we have strong sex drives and it takes all of my energy to hold back myself when a girl is saying she wants to go all the way but you have to learn when to say no and set limits till time for yeah sometimes it seems that most men are pigs but not all of them its a fact because I realize I'm not one by telling this bit of info seperate from the guys I just hoped I've helped you out god bless
2006-09-16 23:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by norman d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get in trouble if someone finds out about this since you're under age. If you feel the even slightest of pressure or feel insecure about this whole situation then you need to stop talking to him. It's obvious that this bothers you so you need to cut him out you're life. There will always be older guys doing this even if the girls out there let them do this to them. Don't feel guilty because whatever happened already happened. Girls need to know that because these guys are older, doesn't mean that you shouldn't put a stop to this....good luck w/everything
2006-09-16 23:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by jbspoiledeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a smart girl. Follow your gut feeling...which is telling you that it's not the right time....yet. Yes, he will get in trouble....and you, too. His hormones are raging.....and he thinks that if he can make you want it bad enough then it's legal. You know it's not. He knows it's not....going after you is appealing to him, because it's forbidden. He's playing with fire. It's like he made it a mission to be your first...You are younger than him...but smarter....act like it.
2006-09-16 23:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u already know wat to do
but i dont think you should go out with him again but if he is really nice to you...wait thats wat they do to get in your pants
i'm sorry but i dont think you should go out with him alone again
2006-09-16 23:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋