i`m pretty, smart, and really sweet....but when i flirt with a guy, he will just look at me, say 'uh-hu' and walk away....i`m not a skanky dresser, or a religious freak....just the girl next door type...Guys...help!!!
2006-09-16 15:52:48 · 27 answers · asked by PrinCessGurl16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...I~M FREAKING SKINNY!!!!! i`m thin and no acne...blonde hair...blue eyes..
2006-09-16 15:56:20 · update #1
You are pretty and smart, maybe you are trying too hard. I did not check to see how old you are. Young men can be particularly mindless, but they all wake up eventually. Just be yourself and someone will come along that appreciates you.
2006-09-16 15:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say. A picture would be nice, but they say looks aren't everything. It could be anything. Do you have any girlfriends that could clue you in? I'm sure there's a man out there for you. It just takes some time to find the right one...
If what you say is true, it sounds like you're hanging out in a gay bar! If not, dress simple and sexy. Don't look at every guy in the place like they could be "the one". Turn down at least one guy. Don't wear jeans. Wear a little black dress. DO NOT over-do the make up. Go with natural hues and lip gloss. Be selective, not needy. Don't take any girlfriends that are annoying. Finally, be yourself...
2006-09-16 23:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by pisces7497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be just having to wait until you meet people who are more your type, that are your friends and can see your qualities and specialness. Not every guy will take you out- some will and just want one thing. So keep busy with the important things and your friends. Lots of the smartest, most beautiful women have been thru what you are going thru. Find something else to do, and work on that smile. Whatever you do, don't sell yourself short. To get respect you have to show respect, first to yourself-!
Be an interesting person, and remember- you reap what you sow!
2006-09-16 23:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by trees 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll go out with u!!!=D i'm just the perfect guy! let's go somewhere i'm new in london i'm from mexico and i'm almost like u (pretty smart and really sweet) so wot do u think if we go 4 a coffe or something ;) hehe
If u r really the way u say u r well u must have a very big amazing eyes that makes all the guys run out from u! cuz ur eyes says "i'm so beautiful 4 u find another one!"
try not to flirt and just be u :)
2006-09-16 22:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mauricio P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should consider the way in which you are flirting. Watch what other girls do. Take a soft approach, let him know you noticed him, but most guys like to be the pursuer. I have noticed that a soft smile will generally let a guy know that you are interested.
2006-09-16 22:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From your description you sound nice. I would go out with you (if I wasn't married). But there must be some other factor. Either there is something about yourself that isn't making that connection with guys, or maybe you are talking to the wrong guys or in the wrong situations. Need more info / introspection.
2006-09-16 22:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all about personality. Maybe yours needs a little help! Also just because you think your pretty doesn't mean others do. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
2006-09-16 22:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maimee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your friends to set you up. Guaranteed, there's a guy who's hot for you but is afraid to ask, or maybe you accidentally said something to run him off.
And also watch other girls to see what they do and how they do it. The simplest thing is to smile, relax, and ask questions.
"do you play any sports? videogames? what bands do you like? what tv shows do you like? "
Easy stuff.
2006-09-16 22:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a certain guy will not ask you out does not mean guys in general won't
2006-09-16 22:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just work on the way you talk to guys. One way is to practise talking to guys even if you dont like them, judt to talk so you dont get nervous when it really counts.
2006-09-16 22:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by help me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋