2006-09-16 15:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by d.a.mcgee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you gone out with him or been with him long enough to truly know you love him? If you're young enough to still be under the jurisdiction of your parents, don't sweat it. There's about 3 billion guys on the planet right now...
2006-09-16 15:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by thekittypro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your dad may see in this boy somethings that he may not like. Remember your dad is a man and was a boy first and second if you continue to cause problems in your household about this boy it could make long term wounds that will never heal. Especially with your siblings. I'd suggest asking your father what exactly is it he does not like about this boy and then step back without letting your boyfriend know you are watching him to see if some of the things your father says have an air of truth. If this guy was a computer geek, and acted in a respectful manner I am sure your father would not have readily taken offense but many times girls like the bad boy types not the computer geeks and trust me bad boys get that name for a reason. It's all up to you. You are the one that holds the cards in this. It's not your boyfriend, not your father, it's you and if you make the wrong discision it will haunt you for the rest of your life. Just my opinion.
2006-09-16 16:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by bonitabertrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what were the reasons given by your dad? Dads are protective lot and years from now, you will be able to forgive your dad. If the boy is serious enough and you don't want to see him behind your dad's back, ask him to go speak to your dad. He needs to outline why he wants to see you, what he likes about you (general ones), assure your dad that both of you are not going to neglect studies (and that means, how many times are you seeing him). If he and you share a few same interests, then, that's an added bonus. Most important of all, the boy has to inquire about your curfew. Ask him to assure your dad that he and you will never flout the curfew. Good luck.
2006-09-16 15:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you stopped to think there maybe a valid reason he feels that way? Maybe you could ask him about it. I know parents aren't ALWAYS right, but they are right often enough that you should be concerned about his reasons. It is possible to love the wrong person you know. And boy does that ever make for a miserable time of life.
2006-09-16 15:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 15, what's the rush. Maybe your dad is protective. Is the guy a lot older?
too many unanswered qs here.
2006-09-16 15:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get u a job so u can save ^ ur money
and move out of ur dad"s house and move in wit ur man and u and ur man can get a place wit each other and then yall can see each other everyday .
2006-09-16 15:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let ur dad stop u just go for it
2006-09-16 15:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by lsugirllara 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do it...my ex-boyfriends girlfriends dad doesnt want her to date but she is anyway
2006-09-16 15:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tweetz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to your father.
2006-09-16 15:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by green star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋