how do u know if ur not just bio?or gay or just alittle confused?
2006-09-16 15:42:32 · 37 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im unsure what bio is, but im non-biological
2006-09-16 15:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a process. I know guys that were out as gay that suddenly wanted to sleep with women again. I prefer to think of sexuality as fluid.
You may have a strong attraction to the same sex but also have occasionally be attracted the opposite sex.
I wouldn't worry so much about the labels. (Some of them can be downright negative, if you haven't gotten that impression already from some of the answers you have received.) I would concern myself with just exploring your sexual preferences more fully and working on establishing new levels of self acceptance.
2006-09-16 15:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by kristinrochelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this 4 a friend, or 4 u?? ok, i have 2 guy friends that are gay and 5 friends that are chicks that are bi, so they have this to say, if you get hard staring at a person of the same sex as you, or you find your self staring at them more then the opposite sex, then there is a good chance you are gay. if you watch porno and stare at the guys more, or watcheing 2 guys go at it, then you might be gay. if a guy and girl go at it is more exciting then girl on girl, then u might be bi.
but don't let me, or any body else be your desiding factor. you need to really sit down and think about this very seriously.
2006-09-16 15:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by u2crazy4meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people go through a stage of sexual experimentation, but for most people there is usually a clear preferance for either male or female partners. If you are primarily attracted to and aroused by members of one sex, but sometimes attracted to and aroused by members of the other sex, you are bi. If you are attracted to and aroused by members of the opposite sex only you are straight. If you are aroused by members of the same sex only then you are gay. Believe it or not, many people are on the bisexual range but choose to live their entire lives only involved in straight relationships. So for all intents and purposes they are straight. I guess it really depends on how you want to define yourself and what you are comfortable with. Gay, straight or undecided, only you can decide for yourself how you want to live your life. Good luck and don't think that just because you may have found a member of the same sex attractive that there is anything abnormal about you. It is just the way some people are.
2006-09-16 15:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Owen's answer is soo tru & funny - go wit that. for the record I hav slept wit one girl when I was just out of college and my current b/f sucked a 50 yr old guy's cock and really njoyed it when he was like 20 and I respect that, and he is what I would class a man's man. But basically both of us r pretty straight at the mo........I think me & my b/f r still a little confused bout what happend in our past but at least we were honest wit each other
2006-09-16 15:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go surf the web and just look for whatever kind of porn that arouses you. As you go you'll start to notice one or more particular genre's you like. If it's only guys, then your gay. If there's some chicks in there, then your probably bi.
2006-09-16 15:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people get confused for a while when they are young - so maybe that is all it is. It is pretty normal to be confused for a while - try to ride it out and see that you are probably just normal.
Maybe you didn't get enough love from your dad. Maybe you aren't gay at all.
2006-09-16 15:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you lik both then your bio but if you lik boys then yeah your gay .well take that back your probaly confused but let just let you know that being gay or bio is a sin so you need to fix that i am not judging you i got friends thats is like that and i am trying to help them out with that so just pray and ask god to help you with thiz problem ....pz pray i dont care if you done somthing so bad you cant tell anybody just tell god he forgives everybody ..even me !!!
2006-09-16 15:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Brittnee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused:
You tried stuff - but it really did nothing for you.
If you are guy, you only really like girls.
Bi:
You get turned on by both girls and guys.
They both give you the same reaction.
You like being with both.
Gay:
You like your same sex way better than the opposite.
The same sex turns you on way more.
You think about the same sex more.
Straight:
You never think about being the same sex.
You are satisfied with the opposity sex.
2006-09-16 15:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much, the fact that you ask...shows you are gay. As far as men go, once you go for the p*nis, you have pertty much checked out of having any possibility with one of us straight girls. Not that there's anything wrong with that...I know how you feel...I like p*nis too. Don't worry about it & have fun, just be safe!
2006-09-16 15:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you find yourself resiting an urge to fix the curtains or pull out the vacuum cleaner while at your friend's home?
This could be a start and time to begin to worry.
2006-09-16 15:45:17 · answer #11 · answered by RealDeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋