and it sure doesnt feel good on my part.
what should I do?
2006-09-16 15:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by John J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
shes a whore, dump her
2006-09-16 15:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Her not being a virgin does not change who she is or will be. If you loved her before she told you, there is no reason you should feel any differently about her. She took that leap of honesty.
I am assuming you are both Christians, so I would suggest to you to forgive her for her past (not just the virginity thing, but anything else as well). You two can have a happy and blessed life together.
2006-09-16 15:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by tjjone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what? What do you think you're doing, buying a length of cloth or a pair of shoes? Her body and the right to it belongs to her, not you, to grant or withhold as she pleases. If you care about her, what difference does it make? Are YOU a virgin?
2006-09-16 15:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she was honest with you about it. Her past is just that, past. You can move beyond that if you love her. Who knows what the circumstances were that led her to give away her virginity. It is something you should just move forward beyond and build your own relationship with her based on mutual love.
2006-09-16 15:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's truly sorry it should be fine. Also, if you truly love her it shouldn't really matter. Remember "love is not jealous." If she's truly committed to you and sorry for what she has done, then you shouldn't worry about it. Maybe you should also sit down and talk with her about it. Tell her how you feel and pray together about it.
2006-09-16 17:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here her story out...
if she was with someone she really loved before u
and just slept with him
he might have left her and she didnt really intend for it to be that way
give her a chance...
if u really do love her... try to understand...
but if she slept around then thats another story
2006-09-16 15:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip her... She needs to be whipped.
Or you could just grab her by the hair, do her doggy style, and then pull her hair back and say "Does my dirtly little $lut like this?!?!!"
2006-09-16 15:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should appreciate her honesty. if you are a virgin yourself, you never would have known the difference if she hadn't told you. if you are not, it would be hypocracy to expect it of her.
2006-09-16 15:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Virgin is ok. You just dont want a whore.
2006-09-16 15:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by betafish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about what you do with your own body and leave hers to her. There's a thought. ^_~
2006-09-16 15:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋