I have a girlfriend who sometimes thinks she can eat the same things I do. For instance, if we go to McDonalds and I order a Quarter Pounder she might want to order one. She is pretty thin right now but I don't want her gaining weight, so i never let her order fattening foods. Usually, I just get her a salad. Well, I found out that when she isn't with me she orders hamburgers and french fries. I was very displeased and told her that she isn't to do that because girls don't have the same metabolism as men do. Besides if guys gain weight it isn't a big deal but if girls do, they look unattractive. She started crying and says she just wants a hamburger now and then. Should I go ahead and let her eat a hamburger once a month?
2006-09-16 15:07:51 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, if you let her have a burger once a month, she'll just lie to you and eat even more. Women lie...I know, I am one. She'll expect you to love her...even if she puts an extra 2 or 3 lbs. on and you know you don't want her all gross like that. Put her on a diet now before it's too late.....
2006-09-16 20:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by shynomore 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You are an a**hole. Let the poor girl eat whatever she wants!!!!Who are you to judge what she eats or doesn't eat?! If you really loved her, you wouldn't care what she ate and just be glad that she does eat. Believe it or not, women have the ability who eat anything a guy can eat, you sexist pig.
And who lied to you and told you that men have a better metabolism than women?! I know several girls that have a WAY better metabolism than most men. And even if she did gain weight, you shouldn't even care that much. You should love her despite what she weighs.
Also, it is a big deal if guys gain weight. It's not healthy at all, and you WILL look less attractive, just like anyone else. Most chicks are actually willing to date a fat guy because of their personality, unlike jerks like you who only date girls just because of looks. I'm shocked that she hasn't left you yet, because I (and just about every other woman) would have immediately.
It's people like you who cause so many women to become anorexic or bullimic. Go see a doctor, you freak, because you need some serious help.
2006-09-16 16:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket:) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, yes. I know plenty of females who enjoy hamburgers and other "manly foods." I don't know if what you said about men's metabolism vs that of women's is true, but women don't eat salads all the time! No offense, but it's borderline sexist to think that. That aside, no one (male or female) should eat hamburgers and fattening foods all the time; also, men shouldn't be ashamed of eating a salad now and then. Bottom line: let your girlfriend pick what she wants to eat. The only time you should provide imput is if she really eats unhealthy foods all the time.
2006-09-16 15:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you're an idiot but really she's the bigger idiot for putting up with a jerk like you. I hope she dumps you very soon for a real man who can take her to a nicer place than a fast food restaurant and let her order WHATEVER she wants. By the way, keep eating fast food and you'll be fat yourself and no, it certainly won't look fine on you, it's just that most girls are more considerate and would love their men anyway IF they are nice guys. You are not, you will be just a fat jerk soon so start worrying about yourself. I hope for your sake that you were kidding because otherwise you have MAJOR issues.
2006-09-16 15:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a month? It's her life, let her do what she wants!!! I'm a girl and I eat Quarter Pounders all the time! I'm cute and thin too. If I were her I would dumb you. Duh you should let her eat a hamburger! She shouldn't even ask you! If you really love her, you wouldn't care if she was fat or now. You are really acting like a control freak.
2006-09-16 15:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lolaaaa! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound peculiar like so many here. She can eat what she wants and YOU cannot control her diet. You are NOT a doctor and you have no idea about metabolism or anything else of importance. She would do well to get the hell away from you as you sound totally demented!And if you REALLY have a girlfriend, why are you not with her tonight? Rhetorical.
2006-09-16 15:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes what kind of b/f are you like her eat hamburgers and fries she might want something other that a salad i know i would. So yeah let her eat hamburgers and fries...oh yeah and if you like or even love her and she gets fat then you should still like or love her
2006-09-16 15:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by soccerchickym 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she should be able to eat what she wants when she wants to eat it. and What do you mean by the same metabolism? I am a girl and i have to eat just about every 2 hours, my brother has the same problem so dont even get off saying that there is that big of a diffrence.
2006-09-16 17:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a god damn psychopath. if my boyfriend EVER told me what i could and could not do he wouldbe out the door so fast he would know what hit him.
Girls can like any food they want such as hamburgers, nachos, deep fried mozza sticks, and god forbid... CHICKEN WINGS!!!
guys can look unattractive too if they put on weight. but if you trully love your girlfriend (which i doubt you do considering you have to discipline her [see other question he posted]) then you'd love her no matter her diet and no matter her size
i wouldn't even consider you a man, your a freakin PIG
2006-09-16 16:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be critical of her, she will disappear on you if you keep that up. Let her eat what she wants... dude your own weight will catch up with you if you don't watch it with the quarter pounders!!! I would rather not see an overweight man either... I think it is "just as bad."
2006-09-16 15:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by mortilyn77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to decide what someone else should or shouldn't eat. Grow up and let the poor woman eat what she wants. It isn't up to you. You sound like a control freak, tell your girl to run. Run far and stay away.
2006-09-16 15:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by aawatson3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋