I've been good friends with him for 3 years and we always had feelings for each other. We started dating 7 months ago. He's so sweet and we always have a complete blast together. I'm so in love with him and he's in love with me. Is it weird? He challenges me in my faith (we're both christians), he makes me laugh more than anyone I've ever met. Am I wrong to want to marry him? He wants to marry me too.
2006-09-16 15:07:03 · 20 answers · asked by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a match made in heaven and ready to ignite! Congrats to both of you!
I'm a pastor and this is the run I'd go through in the pre counseling sessions:
a) Sex - if you are having it: STOP till the honeymoon. This is both a moral and a statistical issue. Increase the likelihood of this lasting.
b) Economics - what will you live on? Who will handle the bills?
c) Kids - timing and number
d) Families - what is the relationship you each have?
e) Future schooling - who & with what?
f) Faith - shared - which church?
These are the basic you need to work through before the service.
2006-09-16 15:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wrong in wanting to marry him. Most 18 year old girls want to marry their boyfriend. Just because you want to marry this boy doesn't mean you have to make that life changing decision any time soon. Love is so much more than a feeling. I wish you the best and hope you will allow yourself to experience life as an independent adult. I hope you continue to be flattered by the attention of men, but it isn't wise to confuse love with desire. At your young age, your limited life experiences are not enough for you to understand the consequences of a marriage commitment.
2006-09-16 15:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by gardenpartygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible,just like me and my wife were classmates in grade 8,then middle of that schoolyear we became steady,until we finish highschool I pop-up the well you marry me question during our first day of college,we now have 3 grown-up kids they just moved-out and soon I am goin to become a grandpa and end of this month will be our 25 wedding anniversary ,so everything is possible just keep your fingers cross and hope that he is the one for you
2006-09-16 15:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not wrong. It sound like you have met your match. If either of you have parents that don't approve, you might want to put off marriage for a while, but it is not wrong to be in love.
2006-09-16 15:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't wrong at all. The people that tell you that you are too young to get married are WRONG. Tradition says that Mary was 15 when she had baby Jesus (Yeshua). As long as your dad says it is okay, go for it!
2006-09-16 15:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May the Lord richly bless your union. I am so very happy for you.
I ask you to do one thing. Make a list of everything you expect and have him do the same.
Make another list of everything you're willing to give.Then exchange list.
The word of God tells us not to be unequally yoked together.
May God bless your love.
Phil Three Rivers
2006-09-16 15:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK, MAN!!
At least somebody wants to MARRY you ----DANG!!
But really, wait it out and see if he is "the one"
I had a Christian friend who married a "Christian" man at 18
Today, she's got two kids, had to kick him out of their apartment because he was too lazy to get a job, found out he was cheating, and the rest is history.
Good Luck, but as a Christian, PRAY and ask GOD to help you make your decision. (At least wait for God to answer you)
2006-09-16 15:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is never a matter of age, it is a matter of maturity. If you are lucky enoguh to be mature enoguh to find the love of your life at the young age of 18. that's plenty more years you have to just be with him.
2006-09-16 15:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by locomonohijo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am 14 and i think.. well i kno i found the love of my life... so i don't think it is weird. I think you guys should get married, don't let that love of ur life slip away get married!!!!!
2006-09-16 15:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. Im 19 and happily married.
2006-09-16 15:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋