pls help me and advise how to tackle a very short tempered husband who gets angry at his whims and fancy. i feel hes got a mood swing , one moment he is fine and the other he is angry.
2006-09-16 14:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by radhika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
a couple of thing can be going on. (1) *CONTROL* his anger can be a part of keeping you in check because he knows that you don't want to upset him. ----if this the case, then don't show that it bothers you when he is upset. act like you don't care, and I bet he will have less out burst. he only have this temper because you give a damn. Nobody in the world cares that he is upset but you, so he going to get all the attention that he can. (2) *SELFISHNESS* he want to control you because it's all about him. -----if this is the case then stop catering to his selfish demands, but keep in mind (3) *INSECURITY* all this could be coming from fear. so the ? is What is afraid of?
2006-09-16 15:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by cilverpenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to talk to him about his mood swings and ways to control them.
There are many solutions to solving anger;
1) Glass Of Water
2) Taking a hot bath or shower
3) Lying down on the bed with a hand over your eyes and thinking of a warm vacation in paradise.
My boyfriend of a year has a short temper but these little things seem to really help him control his frustration and anger to a limit.
Best Wishes.
2006-09-16 14:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Men aren't allowed to get angry anymore? Women can fly off the handle at anything from a toilet seat to what's for dinner, where men, if they so much as raise their voice, suddenly they have a temper problem and 911 is called! Some people can't contructively express their anger and have to let it out unevenly, like a shaken up soda you want to open and drink, but don't want fizz all over the place.
2006-09-16 14:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this ...... whenever is he gets angry, do not react. find the right time to cousel of his act. check out his BP. analyse his moods and act accordingly, may be he is in some tensions not to be shared. BOL
2006-09-16 15:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by PG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a doctor he may be bi polo and need medication,or just plain mean and if thats the case you have to do what you got to do.
2006-09-16 14:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another place to live.
2006-09-16 14:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take a break and leave him alone when he is in tension
2006-09-16 17:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by gaurav g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess he is like me
2006-09-17 00:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Saahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop smoking pot
2006-09-16 14:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋