2006-09-16 14:27:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If it were coming from a close friend, no. If it was some I barely know, I would take it as healthy criticism. And if it was someone I didn't know at all, I would want their input as to why they think that. There's always room for improvement. Nobody is perfect! I would not be the least bit offended.
2006-09-16 14:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and then they would be very lucky if something very bad did not happen to them of course I would have the kids do the deed since if caught they would be prosecuted more lightly......actually someone did tell me I was not raising my children right and I just wiped them off my person list. I don't talk to or about them anymore and they just went away. I deleted them from my computer, sent back their mail, and couldn't care less where they are now. And guess what my family and friends followed my actions.
2006-09-16 14:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by lona b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may make me think about it for a brief second, but everyone raises their children differently. Some people think everyone needs to raise their kids the same way they do and they have no respect for your parenting ways. But it's not something I would even worry about. You know if your doing the right thing for your children or not...no one else does!
2006-09-16 14:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was the one raising the child, yes. Stop and consider the person making the remark. Does this person have children and how great of a job has this person done as a parent? If this a person who genuinely cares for you and the child, consider asking them to explain the comment.
2006-09-16 14:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by brenda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know I had the same thing happen to me last week and yes it upset me, I felt judged and coming from the person it was I understand the saying....People that live in glass houses shouln't throw stones. I am a great parent and I sure you are too..I am not perfect but none of us are. We are learning right along with the kids as they grow up. I actually am still upset!!!
2006-09-16 14:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by sleepy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. The thing given most freely in this world are people's opinion. Just take it as "Your children aren't being raised how I would raise them." Most people think that just because it's not their way of doing things, it's wrong.
2006-09-16 14:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Erutpar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. But if they said something specific, I might want to look objectively at what they said to decide if I think it needs to be changed. Some people think their way is the best and everyone else should follow suit, but other people actually have some good points to make.
2006-09-16 14:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really would depend on the source and the circumstances. because not everyone's children are perfect angels all the time. not even mine lol. but if it is coming from someone who has no children then i would tell them to mind their own business and come back and talk to me when they have kids.
2006-09-16 15:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. But after considering the source I believe I would want to know what makes them think that. Who knows, they may have some valid points. After all kids don't come with an owners manual.
2006-09-16 14:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would depend on how you bring them up. you would deserve it if you were allways swearing at them or hitting them or not making them be good or if they were little gits with everyone. you can allways tell if a child has been brought up proper. they will have manners be good & do as there told. be a credit to there parents, not bratz that people think thank god they have gone home.
BUT. i brought my son up to be well mannered & polite, not like some you see on the streets everyday.
2006-09-16 14:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋