We were never a couple cuz we didnt see eachother enough. But we both knew we liked eachother. I know we would have been a great couple. She moved about 2 years ago and i havent even been interested in any other girls since then. Ive never even liked a girl as much as her.Even when i was her friend i felt love for her. And now shes gone forever. I still think about her from time to time. How do i get over this missed opurtunity. Every time i think of her i really feel like sh!t. Someone show me some light!!!
2006-09-16 14:20:43 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Make yourself busy with work or study.
Don't rebound into another girl. It'll just be more trouble.
Time heals all wounds.
I completely understand where you are coming from, though. My favourite girl died in a car accident many years back. I still think of her from time to time, but it doesn't hurt now. Nobody can compare ... but a few can come close :)
2006-09-16 14:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Daniel, Im so sorry to hear that your still hurting. It can be devistating when something like this happens, I know, I've been there (and in part still am) Nobody will beable to tell you for sure because what your feeling is a very deep and personal emotion but like what happened to me, they touched apart of you that seems to be eternally alive. It could be that unanswered question of "what if". What if you'd gotton together, what if she hadn't moved away, what if I never meet somone that will help heal this pain and loss I feel inside.......I don't really have the answers for you Daniel, but I do empathize with you as I do know how your feeling. Don't close yourself off to the prospects of having a girlfriend, one thing I do know is that you can't stop living and meeting people, you have to move forward for any sort of real chance of survivng this emotion. Good Luck :)
2006-09-16 21:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. a guy that i was really close to and liked moved away about 4 years ago. and its gonna be a ***** to get over. the way i got over him was to actually tell him i had feelings for him. i felt retarded about telling him even though it was more then two years after he had moved and i felt even more stupid to find out that he didnt like me but it was a load off me shoulders. i eventually came to terms with myself and moved on. i still talk to him and its great even though we'll never see eachother again. just tell her and then after you give it some time try to talk to her more even if its just to say hello. dont lose that friendship that you had.
2006-09-17 01:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Just Screw it! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniel its time to move on.....there are other nice girls out there for sure, the best way to bury the past is to move on in the present, if your depressed, get some counseling, I suspect this is what is holding you back from a new relationship
2006-09-16 21:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by PAUL W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go out there and meet new people. Time will pass and you'll hopefully get over it.
good-luck
2006-09-16 21:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by ?heartthrob? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would look her up.... tell her how you feel about her... and then she can tell you how she feels about you... if she doesnt feel the same way im totally sorry. but she would probably think that was like the sweetest thing everrrr... try myspace....
2006-09-16 21:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Just a question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...call her? long distance relashionships dont usually work out, srry bud. u just gotta get over it and move on.
2006-09-16 21:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mandee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become GAY !
2006-09-16 21:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by hazeddiablo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋