why can't they let go of one and move on?
Why do they need two and three folks at the same time.
I just don't understand!
I was cheated on ,but I never cheated !
Please help me to understand!
2006-09-16 13:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by soundlady 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people choose the easy way out. It takes guts to be honest and talk about moving on. Sometimes they just lack self-control and are incredibly selfish. Don't worry, what comes around goes around. They usually get a reality check when it happens to them. The smart ones learn from it, the slow ones are still out there looking for someone better.
2006-09-16 14:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kerri B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't do the DR. Phil answer. But I've always thought that each person brought something else to the situation that the other one didn't. (ie, one was a sports fan, and the other was a easy piece,) Basically it all tallies up to one thing in my book. SELFISHNESS! They don't care who they hurt as long as they get what they want out of the fling, cause you can't call it a relationship. Or is that what they call being a playar!
2006-09-16 21:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by matthew p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the affair didnt mean to happen the strain of a marriage wanting out but the combination of bills and nether spouse could make it alone. And clearly the other spouse could have never truly love the other one and feels obligated to the vals and for fear of hurting the other one. then there is the needy and sex drive is just that sex.
2006-09-16 21:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wendellp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat just to get away from responsibility.
Cheating means not wanting to disclose the true facts behind it.
The reason is very obvious , taking advantage of innocent people who believe in them and escaping from any consequences.
2006-09-16 21:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ms G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the thrill of the hunt for most people. It's the excitement of sneaking around. It really doesn't have so much to do with the sex and whether or not it's good. It's the thrills and excitement one gets... the "high" of cheating, I guess you could say.
2006-09-16 21:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by mamafence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cheater haves an old partner but doesnt care for the old partners qualities so the cheater finds someone else dat doesnt have the same qualities as da old partners but he goes back to the old partner cuz the new one doesnt have the qualities of the old partner n dats y!
-LaLa
2006-09-16 21:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you are so not alone, and I sure wish I knew the answer. I never ever cheated and never thought of it. But it happened to me which we don't feel we deserved at all.
2006-09-16 21:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just can't be with one person and that is usually because they are so insure with themselves. It is NOT about you. You deserve better my dear.
2006-09-16 21:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by hawkesnest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their looking for something better... sorry you were cheated on, but the sex probably wasn't up to par
2006-09-16 21:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by dolphinlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being unhappy in a relationship. the other is cheating . doesn't care any more..
2006-09-16 21:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋