2006-09-16 13:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Your mommy's job is done. God has taken her to a better place so she can be happy. She's proud of you.
2006-09-16 13:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One of the things no one thinks about is that EVERYONE "has" to die. It's not an option, nor is it a penalty for doing something wrong. Everyone dies.
Your question might be better said, "Why did she have to die before I was ready for her to die?" That's a very common question. Obviously we'd all love to have our parents around forever, and we're never ever ready for them to die (even if they're old).
As you go through life, you'll always wonder about a universe where people all die. It always hurts those who are left behind. Ultimately you'll accept it as one of those things that you don't like, but can't change.
At least, that's what I've done.
2006-09-16 21:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by geek49203 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your mommy. Life isn't
fair and it can be cruel. Your mom is still with you because a
part of her lives inside you. Right now you can't get past the pain
and there aren't going to be any words that will take the pain away. Time will ease your loss and the pain. Since I don't know how old you are I am guessing you are a child. Talk with your
family and ask them to help you with your feelings. If you are in school ask to talk with the school counselor. If you believe in God
then turn your pain over to Him and let him carry you for awhile.
Hope this helps you.
2006-09-16 21:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hunny, i am very very sorry to hear that! i almost want to cry! it is a very very difficult thing to deal with. and never really goes away. the pain will always lie there in the pit of your heart, and you almost feel as though your all alone in this world, but hun, your not, and you never will be!
i can stand here with you, and hand you my sympethy cause i hold a lot of it for you. i have lost a father...though i was young and dont remember him, i never knew him...he left my mom and i when i was probably 2 and that was the end of him. but losing a mother must be difficult to handle! a mother is someone who help shape and mold your life into something only a mom can do! they are important, and i sit here next to my computer thinking my life it hard and difficult, but if you look around, there really is someone who has it worse.
so hunny, if you ever want to talk at any given point in time! please feel free to im me or write and email, whatever you feel comfertable doing. my goal on answers is to help people, and so i am offering my help to you!
may God stand with you through this hard battle in life!
2006-09-16 21:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by i will be your friend! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it was her time to go evryone on this earth haves to die someday but we dont know when or how i understand where you are coming from my mom died when i was12 just look at at like that she is here with you in spirit in your heart
2006-09-16 21:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by msstrawberryshortcake21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't know the whys and I can certainly sympathize with you. All you can do now is hold her memories close to you and know that she loved you very much.
And someday you will see her again.
2006-09-16 21:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by no nickname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked the same thing when mine died when I was seven, there really is no answer.
2006-09-16 21:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by booboo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks then you die...her time to go.
2006-09-16 20:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋