Having lived long enough to know beter, I find myself falling...and having been fallen on in a new relationship. Is it possible that it is real?
2006-09-16 13:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by whodunit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens at different rates for different people. I fell in love with my husband almost instantly. He said it took him about the same amount of time.
You will know when it's the real thing.
Good luck.
BTW - I am 40 and my husband is 63. Both old enough to know better.
2006-09-16 13:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As real as you and your love want it to be. He (or she?) is the person you should be asking this question. I don't believe in the one soul mate per lifetime deal but the three major loves of my life have all been love at first sight. Some people do not say that is REAL love but it is a rare instant sparkle that I have only felt for those three men. The real love comes when you get to know them and it just keeps getting better and better. I have talked to many men who say that they knew their wife was the woman they were going to marry from their first date. Sometimes two people will have more than an attraction when they first meet, its more like a gravitational pull, very string and intense. Label it what you will, just make sure your beloved feels the same way so you don't get hurt.
2006-09-16 20:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ranging from love at first sight to forever.
Yes it is possible to be real and faking it also available.
Depends on you and your potential partner. I believe if you are sincere in the relationship you shall fall in love sooner or later. Don't measure the time. Go for the feeling. It will click when the time is right for both lovers.
Good luck.
2006-09-16 20:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ms G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..good question. For me we were working up to it, but it was the first kiss that really sealed it. It made me melt from the inside out! I had already been through two divorces, and had my fare share of kssing, but his was unlike any I had before. We will be celebrating our first year wedding anniversary next month.
2006-09-16 20:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats something that u alone can determine,but true luv takes a while a good while,as an adult,n only u can tell if it's real ,jus look 4 the signs
2006-09-16 20:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer is it real.
As far as falling in love quickly yea that happens often in adualthood.
2006-09-16 20:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that you want him and no one else no matter what and you wanna be ther for him till like forever then yea its possible !!
2006-09-16 20:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by u_juss_wish_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no clock running on love when it happen's it just happen's. We really have very little control over it.
2006-09-16 21:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Possible.
2006-09-16 20:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way to see if it is real is to see how you feel around the person if they make you feel happy,warm,or in love then that is the one for you.
2006-09-16 22:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by d.a.mcgee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋