I told my best friend I liked him but it was on his answering machine.......we are talking now on myspace...but I don't know what to say about it! Should I bring it up? Should I leave it be? Should I ask him if he feels the same way? help?
2006-09-16 13:35:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it be - the ball's in his court now.
2006-09-16 13:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that could happen is rejection, right? You already left it on his answering machine, so why not tell him on myspace now that this is what you had told him on his answering machine.
First of all, bringing it out into the open will relieve you---it is always better when we know what we are dealing with---positive or negative things. Secondly, if you don't tell him now, and he checks his am, then he might be upset that you did not tell him while you had this chat session on my space. So either way, I think you will be a lot better off telling him straightforward and then see what happens....good luck
2006-09-16 20:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mention it. Let him do it. If he doesn't, you will have learned one of two things. --He did not get the message or he is not interested. Hmm... I guess that maybe he could be shy too. Now, you should maybe know that answering machines might not be the best way of expressing your new love feelings? If he did get your message, then he must be ok with it, since you two are talking now, so just let him bring it up. It is his turn.
2006-09-16 20:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think that it was right to tell him on his answering machine.
If you truly are best friends then you should be comfortable enough to tell him in person.
But, since you didn't then I would bring it up, see what he has to say about it. Make sure that he knows that either way you will always be his friend.
2006-09-16 20:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u know if he has heard your message well i bet he did.....just tell him if he has heard it and what he thinks about it ...u never know he might feel the same way...usually when theres guy friends they end up liking u more than a friend.Its odd that he hasnt said anything about it?He might be shy to tell u about it cuz he is feeling the same way thas wat happems ..just tell him if he feels the same!the worse thing that could happen is not being friends anymore ...just do it u never know wus going to happen
2006-09-16 20:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by I want to believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if he didn't get the message? I would ask- did you get my message? How did you feel about it? You will know what to do based on his answer. Good luck
2006-09-16 20:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he brings it up maybe he didnt get the message yet or if he takes too long to bring it up just metioned oh did you get my message... if he says yea... ask him what did u think about it
2006-09-16 20:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe by leaving a message such as yours may be heard by someone else in the family. not smart...you should of waited till you could of told him personally.. ask him if he got it...
2006-09-16 20:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey , well if its been a while scense you told him and he aint brought it up yet maybe you should because theres no scense in waiting for someone who dont give a f*** !
2006-09-16 20:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by u_juss_wish_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't say suttin let that n let it be,so u need to talk to him about it n let him kno how u feel.n ask him how he feels.n the best way to do this is in person
2006-09-16 20:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so chicken! drop the computer stuff and go and see him. plant a kiss straight on his lips and you'll know pretty quickly whether or not it should continue. that is what i have done and it works.
2006-09-16 20:38:55 · answer #11 · answered by SivGiger78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋