I have my own son from a first marriage. I have always promised my fiance - this is the person I will absolutely be with for the rest of my life - that if he wanted a child, we would have one. That is fair. But, at the moment, another child is the last thing I want, to be honest. I am 27 so I guess there is time for me to change my mind. Do you have any experiences that it might help me to hear of? If so I would really like to hear of them. Thank you.
2006-09-16 12:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I never had one because of a guy but the child im about to have is because my mom really wants me to keep it im 15 and young Im not ready. You might want to wait because having a baby when you dont want one will cause resent towards the baby and depression
2006-09-16 12:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by awesome_chick2009 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not have a child because a man wanted me to. My fiance and I have no kids together but I have 4 from previous. If he wants to have a child and I dont want to then he can give birth. I am happy with the kids I have. If its that important that it would make or break us to have another child then hes not in love. Some couples get married and find one cant have kids...they work it out. If one doesnt want to have kids, then they need to get fixed not have one unless they are having one because THEY THEMSELVES want one.
2006-09-17 22:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only wanted two, (got two girls) but my hubby said one more time, and guess what A BOY just what he wanted. Now we are both happy. You have plenty of time to want a baby again. But I will tell you the quickest way to want a baby again, go to the hospital. Tell them you want to see their women's center. Then you will go see the nurcery and see the new babys. Thats what I did.
2006-09-16 20:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It is not right for you and their is a reason. People change their minds and you have a right to your life and important decisions like that.
2006-09-16 20:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't have a child that you are not ready for. You will resent your husband when things are hard. It is a bad thing to feel like you are living for someone else.
2006-09-16 19:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by sophia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother has two of my brothers because my father told her that if she didn't give him more children, that he would leave her. I think its horrible.
2006-09-16 20:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I hate my husband for "trapping" me.
2006-09-16 20:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋