I asked a question about giving a girl a sonnet a few days ago and one of the female user answered as follows-
Now what I wantto know is how many of you especially girls feel the same way that this person says. You can see my questions for the question I asked.
Thanks
2006-09-16 12:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
myth - guy does something romantic, girl falls in love with guy.
fact - only in movies.. well to be fair, romantic acts don't usually work this way and could even be a turn off. most modern gals with a reasonable "social" rating..will just laugh it off or worse, get irritated by it... in fact, romantic gestures should be carried out for a loved one not for a stranger, which sadly, most guys fail to do once they are in the relationship. so, before you are even into a relationship, it is not romantic things that catches the gal's attention, but rather, the real Man that you are projecting to her. Be it, your gentlemanly behaviour, your scholarly conversation, your masculinity, your geeky cute mannerisms, your projected sense of confidence / security / pride / finiancial stability.. and so on and so forth.. so, its either she likes the impression she has of you or she doesn't, and it is up to you to change/improve yourself on those "properties" that she likes. of course, the
2006-09-16 12:44:04 · update #1
of course, the opportunity for you to impress upon her must exist.. which will be another topic altogether.
2006-09-16 12:44:47 · update #2
The gears that run my mind froze up halfway through that....
Men that are "movie" romantic before the relationship tend to be stalkers and overly possessive during the relationship..
2006-09-16 12:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with her response . . I think that the reaction to a sonnet depends on the girl and the type of relationship that you have with her already . . . MOST girls appreciate romantic gestures like that . . . only the shallow-minded, snobbish, gold-digger type girls will laugh it off like it's nothing . . .
2006-09-16 19:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Only a mean person thinks like that. Most girls would be sincerely flattered and impressed.
2006-09-16 19:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and be a man.
2006-09-16 19:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't agree.
2006-09-16 19:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Andy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋