I went out with this guy that look good on paper, but a loser in life. I found out that he is 28 and lied about not living with his mother. He said his goal in life is to see what comes up next. When we went out to dinner, I went to the restroom came back and he drank my soda, but lied and said he didn't. He also didn't have money to pay for dinner, because he said he didn't know the place was going to be that nice. I left his a*s*s there and paid for my food.
What is your worst loser date and what did you do with him or her to get rid of them?
2006-09-16 12:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by Miss. Tee98 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A Evil Homer were you that loser?? LOL Taking it kinda personal uh!
2006-09-16 12:46:18 · update #1
PROBABLY the worst date humanly imaginable:
A. Showed up two hours late HAMMERED drunk, fresh from watching a Lakers game with his friends (he drove drunk 40 miles to my house).
B. Was wearing a trucker hat perched really high on his head (chunt style) with the bill facing the side...like a bratty little gangbanger kid, and wore it that way ALL night.
C. Did not want me to drive us to the restaurant, even though he was hammered...I did anyway.
D. I ordered fajitas...he "wasn't hungry" so he ordered a beer & a shot of tequila.
E. We had absoloutly nothing to talk about over my meal, except that he'd liked me for YEARS and was so stoked that he was finally getting to go out with me that he guessed that he was just nervous & acting like an idiot.
F. When the $20.00 check came, he asked if I could sport him any cash, since he was gonna have to have gas money to get home...I did not "sport" him anything.
G. Back at my house, I decided that he should hang out for a while to sober up before having it on my concience that he was out there on the road completly hammered. He KEPT on sloppily leaning in for a kiss, and trying to make moves on me. Get a clue dude!
H. He fell asleep on my couch, which, at first was a good thing....since he finally shut up & stopped trying to put the moves on...but then....
I. He went in to the bathroom to take a beer leak, somehow...he completly pissed himself...completly soaked pants...even some pee on my white bathroom rugs.
J. Called for my help in the bathroom. I came in to find him with one leg out, one leg in his pants & soaked boxers, drunk & confused.
K. Helped him out of his pants like a baby, and gave him some of my X-boyfriends gym pants, and told him he'd better go now.
L. He left his pee-pee pants and boxers at my house, in a pile in the tub.
M. He STILLLLLLL tried to make moves at the front door as I escorted his butt out. He was shut down, of course.
N. He still called me after...said he didn't know if maybe I'd want to go out again sometime??????? Then he asked me please not to tell anyone about this... (it was farrrr too late for that I'd already called my best guy friend, who knows him as well, the minute he was out my door to gas on the situation)
N. Lastly in that same, & last ever, phone conversation, he asked me if I could wash out his pants & stuff & bring them to him at work? Not possible...I threw 'em in the dumpster the next morning.
I'm glad I had this terrible date, it's given me YEARS of laughs and something to judge all other lame dates by. So far, nothing else has compared.
2006-09-16 13:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did good. I did the same thing. My worse date was when I went to see a movie with a man that knew I'd seen the movie before. He asked me not to talk about the movie and I laughed on a funny part. He got attitude and got up and moved to the end of the row. I got up and went home. He had the nerve to ask me to forgive him the next day. I said I forgive you, but I'll never let you treat me like that again. Have a great life!
The thing to do with men who mistreat you is to walk away.
God bless!
2006-09-16 12:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by ConcernedMom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I once dated a guy that took me way far out to this small town to go bowling. (I had never bowled and it wasn't my idea of fun besides there was a bowling alley closer than that). He hardly spoke...rushed through the date and took backroads home. Never tried to even hold my hand. Funny because he was all talk anf flirting when he asked me out. I told my friend about how lame this date was....she called a friend that knew him and found out he was living with a girl and had a child! I called that girl and told her. Of course nothing happened but he still took me out and lied. he told me on the phone before the date that the baby crying in the background was his little brother! He was a loser and she left his *&(!
2006-09-16 12:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Always take the high road. If you dump a guy roughly, no matter how much he deserves it, he'll be thinking, "Man, what a *****." But if you politely say something like, "It's been nice talking with you, but I'm afraid we're just not a good match," you'll have the satisfaction of leaving him feeling like an idiot for letting such a class act like you slip through his hands.
2006-09-22 08:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by spam_n_eggs_n_spam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is so humorous! i'm curious as to the way you heard of this tale. I lived in Ithaca quickly contained in the 70's. **curiousconnie...I watched that tale on Nancy Grace very last evening. How tragic & now the moms and dads are suing her acquaintances & the bar, employing reality her daughter grew to develop into six situations over the criminal decrease again. Her mom did admit that her daughter has had 2 DWI's contained in the previous & had a historic previous of eating. Hellooooo!!!!! awaken moms and dads.
2016-11-27 19:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
u acyually went out with him?
if he can get a date, how come even i cant?
i must be an even bigger loser.
but i dont do the things u described he did.
i really suck.
2006-09-19 17:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm allergic to losers. I have no time for grown a$% men who play games like they're children
2006-09-16 12:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Told the loser what I thought of him and simply walked away.
2006-09-16 12:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by hawkesnest 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good job sister! Way to go!
2006-09-16 12:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Andy K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I whined about them on Yahoo answers
2006-09-16 12:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋