I have been with my boyfriend exclusively for about a month now. Is it to early to be talking about moving in together in about 6 months or is this a sign he really digging me??
2006-09-16 12:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Carleyheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's too early.
2006-09-16 12:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that its too early....you haven't had a chance to get to know each other well yet. And even 6 months down the road is a huge "if". I would personally give a year or more. Everybody needs their own personal space to grow. If after a year you guys are still wanting to live together then do it. At least by then you should know if he leaves his dirty laundry on the floor and you will have more a feel of what he's like on his good days and bad days.
2006-09-16 12:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely too soon to do it in six months. You really do not know a person for at least a year or more! I have been in 2 long term relationships and everything was great both times until we had been dating for about a year and a half and then I started realizing things about them. In 6 months your still starry eyed and thinking with your heart. I wouldn't recommend it.
2006-09-16 12:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by denico91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, yes it is too early. I moved in with a guy after 5 months of exclusively dating and it got ugly quick. I thought I knew him, but he turned out to be an abusive druggie. I got two wonderful children and a dead beat dad out of that relationship. Good luck with your decision.
2006-09-16 12:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by twinboys92403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is far to soon. You need to known more about each other 1st. Give it years or marriage!
I thought I knew this guy really well after 8 months.
We moved in together & in 14 months he stole me blind.
2006-09-16 12:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's waaay too early. Give it time. A relationship has to be built and strengthened to get to that point of security, and a month is far from enough.
2006-09-16 12:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is to short a time to start talking about moving in...give it some time.
2006-09-16 12:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. Absolutely not. To be secure and for good measure, do not move in with him or him moving in with you. Why? Because you don't know each other well enough and also, in my opinion, you should be dating for at least 2 years for anything like that to happen.
2006-09-16 12:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its good to moving as soon as possible that way you now what you are really dealing with. I have my own house now and since my ex left me its been great. I always tell my gfs that when ver they want to move in its fine. But if i tell them they have to go they go. IT might seem kinda cruel but hey no one forced them to move in they just wanted too. I like to be really clean about my stuff but some ladys out thier think that spilling red wine on my white carpet is cute thing. I just wish they thought it was cute when they saw my foot on thier azz booting them out.
2006-09-16 12:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always tooearly to move in together. I have seen it happen over and over again, and it never works out. You will get hurt in the long run. From the bottom of my heart...please do not do this. I do not even know you, but I care enough about you to tell you to not do this. Please re-consider!
2006-09-16 12:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too soon... by the time 6 months rolls around you may have changed your mind
2006-09-16 12:43:52 · answer #11 · answered by junkee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋