2006-09-16 12:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by way2sexigurl69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are hot, seriously....guys form a list of girls that meet thier standards in apearance in thier head, then if you act interested in them and have some stuff in common, they ask you out, he will never ask you out if you arent on his 'list' or you dont show interest in him....as far as flirting goes, just make eye contact with him and smile, if you are on his 'list', he will try desperately to keep the conversation alive, oh, and talk a bit softly to him, i love it when girls talk softly
so if you like a guy just talk to him because if he doesnt like you there was nothing you could have done anyway, and as long as you dont act agressively weird guys wont knock you off thier 'list', it is almost impossible to get a guy to add you onto his list if he is younger than18(unless you become hotter), your friends and actions never kock you off his 'list', but they can help him know you are interested
-good luck
2006-09-16 12:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with most questions, this one is a bit vague. In an algebra question I need certain elements to find the missing value. It is the same with this question. Are we talking about a particular guy or just any guy? What is it about yourself that makes you think he hasn't already noticed you but is too shy to take the next step? Have you shone interest in a guy? Have you ever dated before? What is your age category and or location? What are you looking for in a guy besides the fact that he is male?
All of these questions need to be answered before one can hope to respond to the above question. If one had these facts then answering the above would be simple. If it is a particular guy, ask him out. I know it is the 21st century, but even in the 19th some women still made the first move. It was just gossiped about more. If gossip is your worry, then remember this. "Faint heart never found true love." If you wait around and hold yer hands in yer pockets, the only thing you will have in the end is a broken heart. Cause a guy that would force himself on you is no Prince Charming.
If you think you are beyond notice of all men, then let me be the first to say "Ha." As a man, we notice every single female within a mile regardless of line of sight.
I ask the age group because the rules of dating change for every generation in shifts. Sometimes Roses are a good thing, sometimes they are not depending on what age group we are talking about. If it is teen relationships, those are vastly different than adult relationships, and so on.
What are you looking for? If you don't know, how will you know when you see it. This reminds me of a story...
A man is informed that a flood is coming. Upon this news most of his neighbors pack up to leave. One of his neighbors offers to drive him away from there. The man smiled and said, "I'll be fine! The Lord will take care of me!" Thus, the neighbors left.
The waters began to rise and soon was tall enough for boat traffic. A rescue team comes in a raft and says,"Come on and get on, buddy. There is plenty of room." The man just smiles and says, "The Lord will take care of me!!" Thus the raft leaves.
The waters really get high and the man climbs onto his own roof to avoid them. A helicopter comes by and lowers a ladder. "Come on, buddy. You will drowned if you don't hurry," says they. The man just waves them off and says, "The Lord will take care of me!! Go on and get some people that really need you!!" Thus the Copter leaves.
Now the man is in the water above his house treading water. He is in desperate trouble and the water is not stopping. He goes under and comes up after a long time and says," Lord? Why hast thou forsaken me?" God in Heaven looks down on the man. A tear forms in the eye of the Almighty. "My dear child, I sent you a car, a raft, and a helicopter." Thus the man leaves to join the Almighty.
Don't be this man. Don't be "woe is me" victim. There are no victims. We all make the choices that create the situations in which we live. No one made it anywhere by the path of self-pity. Assess the situation and make the changes you want. Your choices will show you to be the type of person that you want to attract.
2006-09-16 20:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ronisan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact and smile...
2006-09-16 19:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something extraordinary.
2006-09-16 19:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by KCD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flash at him . that defo works. I saw your third question.
2006-09-16 19:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by hard to know 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself...Or just go up and talk to him.
2006-09-16 19:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by goodies100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for his phone number!!
2006-09-16 19:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act slutty... it works for me...
2006-09-16 19:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Louie Anderson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋