ok i am in grade 9..... and last year this guy was jux a total *****.... so i didnt pay much attention to him....and to top it all off he says he hates me.... and he says it looking rite into my eye like standing rite in front of me....... so any wayz..... i didnt like him back then becuz like i said... he was a big asshole
but this year....... i dunno wtf is wrong with him.. he was jux being so sweet and nice.... even talking to me on msn....and now i hav a crush on him....... but i cant help remembering wat he said to me last year........ so does he still hate me?
and i heard last yr he liked this other girl... wich happened to be the girl i hate.... so i think hes a player..... and my friend says hes a poser and fake
2006-09-16 12:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
allmost the exact same thing happened to be and i went out with him and now his being a huge dick over nothin and i wish i hadnt gone out with him. he may be sweet now but if he was such an *** last year he proabbly still is and u should watch out and see what he really wants so u dont have to regret it later lyk i am now
2006-09-16 12:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think I would listen to your friend on this one. It is so much easier to see a fake when you don't have a crush on him. I used to absolutly adore this one guy who truely is a a**hole, but I could "see" through it and I saw a nice guy, even after all the mean things he had said to me. My crush was huge and in the end I was hurt to find out that he was only using me. (if you get drift) He got what he wanted and then was gone. He told everyone and I looked like I was the easy one.
All my friends told me he was a player, a**hole and fake. I wouldn't listen to them. The bad thing here is I am old enough to know better, but I let my crush get in the way.
Listen to your friend. If you do decide to persue this guy, don't give him "anything" cause in the end you will be hurt. Also your very young and crushes will come and go. Don't be like some of us girls who give in to guys/men too quickly. Before you know it you will have quite the reputation and the self esteem will be knocked down, and it is so hard to build it back up.
Believe me on this one.
Good luck
2006-09-16 19:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For my opinion I think he does this to a lot of girls. You should ask some girls that was in some of his classes last year, and ask them about him. Get some information from the girls. But if you like him get some signs from him like touching you, or acting different every time you get near him.
2006-09-16 19:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should get your self to gather and balance things if you know hes a player you know that if you get your feelings involved you only going to get hurt but on the other hand you are curious to know how he hes because hes been nice to you.I would say stop involving your feelings take a cold shower and play hes game but wen you see that hes going to far don't be to nice or lat hem do watt he wants hes the one that started things so he as to play your game.and if you want to have something with him lat him sand sms and answer but don't sand any.be strong and remember stop before u go 2 far or else you ARE GOING TO GET HURT.good luck
2006-09-16 19:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me,He's like a freaky weirdo,i i usually dont call people that extreme most of the time.But,if he acted seriouse,then i wouldnt like him.As for if he hates you,he might just have said that so that you wouldnt get the idea that he liked you.the girl that he suposibly liked might of been you or a rumor.Only time will tell if he ''hates''you are ever hated you.
2006-09-16 19:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys mature slower than girls. When they are young they say mean things to get your attention. I know it sounds odd but if he saud he hated you it was probably just a lie, he was just trying to gain your attention. Now he is a little older and more comfortable expressing himself honestly.
2006-09-16 19:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He heard you were easy and he just wants a piece of a**
2006-09-16 19:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Homer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a player stay away!!!!! Find a new crush...
2006-09-16 19:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk he sounds like he may have made a bet that he could get you if he wanted you?
2006-09-16 19:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋