I'm still in love with my ex, and it's been really hard for me to move on. Now I can't even go out with other guys because all I think about is my ex and wish this other guy was him. I don't know what to do I'm hurting so much. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 12:25:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We broke up because he said he loves me but he's not ready to have a serious realtionship.
2006-09-16 12:30:17 · update #1
Don't try to stop your feelings.Time heals everything.I am sure that there is the right person for you who will make you forget your ex.Best wishes :)
2006-09-16 12:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your sad news. I hope you can recover from your pain soon so that you can continue on with your life again.
I don't know why your couple had to break up so I can't assume anything. But this is what you can do for your own.
List out all the reasons why you broke up with him in first place. Then think honestly and objectively that will these reasons (that broke your couple in first place) come between you two again if you get back together. Or are you 200% positive these issues no longer worry you? If you feel truly positive, you could at least discuss this with your ex.
If you really loved him at the first place, I can only assume the reasons that broke you two up must be something really serious...serious enough that you felt there is no other option expept breaking up. So think hard and best of wishes to you!
2006-09-16 12:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gurl,
I know what you are going through ! i juss got out of a really bad relationship with an ex too ! And even though we both know how much love is in the past and how much we still care about each other , Its just not to be ! And one day you will find the right person who makes you feel wonderful and then you will realize that wat you and ur ex had wasn't meant to be ! But till then just look for good and don't let bad get you down ! bc if you do u'll mess things up even worse ! i hope you get over him and find the right person for you !
2006-09-16 12:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by u_juss_wish_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal all. I know it does not seem like it now but it will get better. I just recently ended my marriage of 28 years . At first I was devastated. I did not know what I was going to do. But since then I have moved on. I found someone new and he is the best thing that has ever ever happened to me. I am moving on and not looking back. I was once told if you truly love someone let them go free, If they come back to you they are yours forever, if not they never were yours to begin with.
2006-09-16 12:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, sweetie, I know it's hard. How long has it been since the break up? I have yet to get over my ex and it's been more than 4 years (not saying that's gonna happen to you!!!). For most NORMAL people (like yourself), time does heal wounds, even though that just sounds like an old cliche'.
Give it time, stay busy with friends, family, activities, and before you know it, you'll have forgotten about him, hopefully.
Good luck.
2006-09-16 12:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to still have some feelings for ur ex! and it may take awhile before u can begin dating happily again. so for now just keep going on. remind urself why u guys broke up (if u with him there must have been a reason and if he broke up with u- his loss!) and start hanging with the girls more! u can still go out and have fun without a guy. and then u will naturally ease back into the dating scene. good luck :)
2006-09-16 12:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give lots of space between broken heart. Dont fall into another relationship too soon or it may be for filling your current pain not for love of the next person. Yeah, it hurts, but realize everything including lost love is a time hurdle that needs internal caressing and reflection.
2006-09-16 12:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!who broken with who!I've been through it and I'm only 13! It's hard to let go bcuz you wish you could just make it work again!It may work but I'm not sure !I'll give it to anyways.OK you still luv him right then why can't you try to ask him. if its for personal reasons he can't tell you or something you did then try going out with guys that don't remind you of him and make sure you don't give up.also try to make him jealous that'll make him feel stupid and knowing you got tons of guys that want you most of all don't show or feel desperate for someone like him! think of him a memory and don't let him control you. It's over and by over you have to try to move on and find someone better. WHOA i got allot to say and allot experience that i know i got through it! He's jealous and wants me back but i won't give in cuz i know there are allot and i mean allot of guys out there!
2006-09-16 12:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by hearty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too, unfortunately if you are like me the only answer I can give you is not the one you want to hear but it is time, it takes alot of time from what I am told. I was with my wife for 12 years and I miss her like crazy, but she has moved on nothing I do works to get her back so now I am left waiting for this time to pass so I can try and move on.
2006-09-16 12:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by jbrown280000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just that you are use to him. Take time and go out with people and look for the different qualities that your ex did not have that the new guy does.
Also do not go out just to look for a relationship. Go out and enjoy being single for while.
2006-09-16 12:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this take time and sometimes long. But if you still think about him try to remember why you broke and maybe that will help.
2006-09-16 12:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋