well i really like this girl, and i'm just wondering if she's playing hard to get...like one day after school i see her hugging and talking to other people, then when she saw me she just looked away and started talking to another person... but i asked one of her best friends what she thought about me and they said she thinks your hott. so yea i'm totally confused are these signs of her playing hard to get? and what are the signs of playing hard to get? and what can i do to get her to really like me.
2006-09-16 12:15:37 · 15 answers · asked by djm12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming all you stated is true, it seems clearly she is indeed playing hard to get. You may confirm it by playing hard to get yourself. Act as if you're no longer interested in her. If she had her eyes on you, she will be puzzled and upset by your change. You should be able to tell whether she is a bit annoyed by the change or not. Once that's done, you can proceed and express to her that you'd like to try to have a relationship with her.
If you don't want to go this route, you could just simply approach her ask her out in straightforward manner. She can only say yes or no. If she indeed likes you, she will have to say yes.
What is the worst thing that can happen? Be brave and take your chance. All great things don't get achieved easy. Don't worry about failure. It won't be the end of the world if she said no to you. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-16 12:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she noticed you looking she was imbarrassed, and tried to play it off like she didn't know you were there. She's not a player, just an open person. I hug people all the time, it doesn't mean anything, like the french kissing each other on the cheek. She was just worried you'd be jealous. If you can deal with that much affection as a "nothing" thing then continue the relationship, but if it bothers you that much then you should talk about it. You can't really get anyone to like you without being yourself!!
2006-09-16 13:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by April J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time. Ride it out for a little while... but if games like these continue too long, then she probably isn't worth your while. IF you do end up in a relationship with someone who loves to play games, you'll spend half your time wondering if she's testing you or tricking you or just playing games with you... no fun... trust me
2006-09-16 12:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by whatifiwasreallygod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably playing hard to get. If her friends told you she thinks your hot then she thinks your hot. She also might be trying to make you jelous. Next time you see her talk to her and try to make her laugh and give her signs that you like her. Hope this helps.
2006-09-16 12:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing hard to get cuz she likes u and makeing u look at her when she huging and talking to people she want u to see her doing that stuff i say good luck with her lol
2006-09-16 12:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us ladys are funny she could be so shy about how shee thinks of you that the only thing she can do is pretent she dosn't care so she won't look like a fool if you don't care for her
my advice just ask her out if she tells you no then you know but if she tells you yes it cold be the best thing to happen to you
2006-09-16 12:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's playing hard to get that means she likes to play games and u wouldn't want a relationship with her....
2006-09-16 12:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her Friend says she thinks your hot, then yes she is playing hard to get...just ask her out...you have nothing to loose
2006-09-16 12:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complament her in any way and it does look like she is playing with you so play back
2006-09-16 12:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do that because they wanna test if ur worthy enough..... so either u make a move OR wait until she realizes ur the best thing there is
2006-09-16 12:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋