Ok can you people help please! ok so theres this boy i just met on monday(we are in ffa, a school club)i met him when we were going on our club trip to the state fair. and i like him ALOT!! like ive never liked a guy this much! and i really think he likes me...he started talking to me first..by the way he was acting i think he likes me and he would just find any little thing to say to me to talk. and i couldnt even look at him! like i like him that much!! i would kinda talk back to him though..and my best friend was like "i really really honestly think he likes you" and i kinda think he does too..but i dont know what to do! like i really like him...should i like start flirting with him back? try and talk to him alot more? what should i do??? cause i would really like to start hanging out with him and stuff? i just dont want him to think i dont like him or something cause i havent talked back to him that much...THANKS!!!! plz help <3333
2006-09-16 12:04:25 · 14 answers · asked by TWiSTED|♥|ELEGANCE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys and girls have the same kind of feelings. Just because someone is male doesnt mean they dont have feelings. If you dont talk to him then he is going to think you dont like him. A lot of people miss out on the love of their lives this way. He may be thinking exactly the same way you ar thinking. Dont be afraid, he has feelings too, and maybe he likes you just as much as you like him.
What is the worst that can happen if you do talk to him. The sky isnt going to open up and swallow you up. Give it a go, you might be surprised. Most guys like confidence in a person....I dont mean over confident and full of yourself, just someone who is not afraid to to be assertive.
I think you should talk to him heaps more otherwise he may think you are not interested.
2006-09-16 12:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right, here's the thing. Are you shy/quiet kind of girl? Because that's okay. Have more eye contact with him and gather courage to talk to him more. Otherwise he WILL think you don't like him. It sounds like he does like you, hon. But you need to be strong. If you're a girl who blushes easily, that's ok. Guys kinda like the blushing part. But you need to talk to him more, like break into a conversation. And then you will be on a role!
2006-09-16 19:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by panda_b_13_06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all be yourself that's most important. Try to relax a little I know its hard but give it a try. Get to know him a litte better like ask him things about himself. You know like favorite games, songs etc. This way he'll know that you're interseted. Who knows you might find that you have some things in common. Just give it a try and see what happens. Good luck.
2006-09-16 19:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our hormones can go crazy when we're at school, and the feeling of a crush can take over everything in our life at the time....Just start hanging around the guy regardless, he is obviously not going to tell you to get lost, just don't go overboard when it comes to flirting, just be yourself, and try to get to know him better.
2006-09-16 19:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to flirt, you already have his attention. Talking to him would be a plus! Then you'll both know if the talking will get you anywhere. Sounds like he already likes you, so you best start showing your interest
2006-09-16 19:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down on a sheet of paper ----
" Hi, umm i was wondering if you wanna go see a movie saturday with me."
okay monday in school get his phone number. call his house that night when he answers or his mom gives him the phone read your paper so you don't get too nervous and ask him to flea dip your dog. it won't be that hard because you won't have to see him face to face.
2006-09-16 19:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by searching4something 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK, you aren't giving enough detail on what he is doing. But yeah from the details that you are giving it sounds like he likes you... I am not sure though. Start talking to him like you are BFF's and you will probably become friends and then maybe more than friends. Who knows....... only time will tell!
Hope I could help!!
Good Luck! :D
2006-09-16 19:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me im going thew the same thing too.just like talk too him say like hay what's up or how was your weeked well u got firt a little if you like him that.well ggggooooooooddddddd luck
2006-09-16 19:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by alicia g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Well, anyway. Be assertive. Be honest and frank and, tell him that you are interested in him. That should get the ball rolling.
2006-09-16 19:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by webstoragea1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, talk to him more and tell him that you would like to hang out with him more. Geez, he is just like you and probably as nervous as you are, relax and have fun! It does sound like he likes you, so be you :)
2006-09-16 19:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋