what would be the best way to appologize without using words nessesarally, i know the person i made mad is very upset at the way i handled an issue, but how do i make that better without taking back what i said, because if i did take back what i said, i know we would break up in the future... HELP!!!
2006-09-16 11:56:38 · 12 answers · asked by gunther 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her flowers with a note that says, "I know I acted like a total jerk for the way I handled things. Please Forgive me."
You aren't taking back what you said, you are taking back the way you handled the situation.
Make sure and follow the flowers up with some very nice behaviour, if she needs to vent, let her without getting back in an arguement or hurting her even more, just tell her again that you are sorry and will work on better communication with her in the future. Follow that up by learning some good communication skills.
2006-09-16 12:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to make the person laugh. Sing a song or try to be a comedian for a while. Don't say sorry till the person's mood seems to be good. Then apologize as if u r really very sorry and tell how much u llove the person.
2006-09-16 12:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the person you are sorry if you seemed to handle the issue badly, but you only did what you thought was right at the time. this way you are not taking back what was done but also giving the other person the impression that you wished you'd handled it better.
2006-09-16 12:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take back what you said verbally... You don't KNOW that you both would break up in the future... You only THINK that... Besides, if she's that unforgiving, you probably need to move on, anyway...
2006-09-16 12:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers or cards to say you are sorry, but honestly where is the love in your relationship if you cannot tell each other 'sorry' by using words.
2006-09-16 12:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Aushbaba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sorry if you won't take back the one thing that hurt them in the beginning. I'm sorry you can't have it both way's your either sorry or your not.
2006-09-16 12:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt mean you would have never said it, hence, you need to make up your mind do you want this person or not....
Say it in three simple words, I AM SORRY
2006-09-16 11:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the movie 'the last kiss', i just saw that last night and the guy literally sits on his girlfriend's porch for like 3-4 days straight just so that she will talk to him, and he learns that he always has to be honest, even if the truth hurts.
2006-09-16 11:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always best to tell the truth in a gentle way. How about "I'm sorry " and shut up?
2006-09-16 11:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough mess but try telling her how you fell about her this might work good luck
2006-09-16 11:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by aaaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋