we have been going out for 2 months, (we are both in high school), and we have hugged a lot, and kissed, and made-out a lot, and we hold hands everyday, and when he goes to hug me and kiss me, he puts his hands around my waste and not on my butt.. he has never done this... and i mean i kinda want him to.. so what should i do to get him to do this??
2006-09-16 11:53:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u shudnt change the fact that he doesnt grab ur ***...... hes respecting u in this way.... so that probably indicates that hes not a player..... so u shud be thank ful...... and if u want him to grab ur ***... i dunt think that u shud say that.... becuz that wud probably freak him out
2006-09-16 11:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd be pleased that he isn't being inappropriate like a lot of other guys, be happy that he gives you the kisses and the hugs and the holding hands and all the making out, maybe he's just a gentleman? And if you would like him to just ask him why he has never done it and let him know that you'd like him too. Don't ever drive yourself crazy about things just open your mouth and you should always get your answers.
2006-09-16 12:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by tanya d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want him to! Or move his hands down. Or grab his butt! Maybe he's embarrassed about doing it in public, or worried you'll think he's being a bit forward.
2006-09-16 11:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by pompeii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
butt grabbing... hmmm a serious question. Next time you get hot and heavy put some glue on your butt and plant his hands there. Make sure it's super glue. He will appreciate.
2006-09-16 12:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend probably actually likes you and doesn't want you just for your body! Take it as a compliment! (I wish exclamation points had more personality so you would know that those are happy exclamation points, and not angry ones.) But, anyway, why would you want him to? Is it because your other boyfriends have and it just seems wierd, or what? Just talk to him about it if it really bothers you all that much.
2006-09-16 11:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by grenworthshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shake your a** around him or keep bumping your butt into him and be like oops. You should wear skin tight yoga pants that show every curve and that when pulled, are see through so that when you bend over, he can see your a** Hope I helped
2015-05-10 05:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing cause this seems to be an intelligent young man giving respect where it is due. This will be disrespect on your part so why invite something that can create issues un-wanted later on.
2006-09-16 11:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becasue my boiifriend did that, an it got sooo annoying cuz he was obsessed with me!so if you wan him to them you put ur hands o HIS butt then maybe he will do tha same to youu!!!
he is respecting your space && is telling you he isnt sure that you want his hands there
2006-09-16 12:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are kissing grab his hand and put it on your butt keep your hand there over his....he will probably put his other hand there too
2006-09-16 11:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all maybe he dosent want to grab ur butt b/c he thinks tht its inopropiate and tht he should treat u better \, but if you want him to then just ask him or move his hand to your butt
2006-09-16 11:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by TNQE H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋